family issues, well ... for me.. they kinda never went away.. once i bought my mom and dad a house. then everything got more complicated..
one thing.. make time for you.. i know i know.. it is easy to say.. so easy to type.. but so hard to disengage.. and detox.. i feel sick when I am with my family.. i prefer everyone\s family.. over mine
your family will prevent you from forming your own family and giving your partner what she needs... get a bit religious and say to yourself..
first if some power a creator.. then.. me and my girl, my wife. then.. if there is a creator.. he will right what is wrong..
i get blamed for enabling my parents.. my sisters, etc.. my success.. limited.. bought a few homes, and now... my sisters are vying for my attention so they can get my moms house and my mom is not even dead yet.. i get sad and depressed.. i want to burn the house.. so nobody gets it..
take time for you.. you can not be effective unless you step up and take command of those very few things you can take command of.. i still struggle with how to share the home i bought for my parents with my sisters who never contributed anything financially, but were always there physically... i was always gone.. doing my thing... making money...
one thing.. make time for you.. i know i know.. it is easy to say.. so easy to type.. but so hard to disengage.. and detox.. i feel sick when I am with my family.. i prefer everyone\s family.. over mine
your family will prevent you from forming your own family and giving your partner what she needs... get a bit religious and say to yourself..
first if some power a creator.. then.. me and my girl, my wife. then.. if there is a creator.. he will right what is wrong..
i get blamed for enabling my parents.. my sisters, etc.. my success.. limited.. bought a few homes, and now... my sisters are vying for my attention so they can get my moms house and my mom is not even dead yet.. i get sad and depressed.. i want to burn the house.. so nobody gets it..
take time for you.. you can not be effective unless you step up and take command of those very few things you can take command of.. i still struggle with how to share the home i bought for my parents with my sisters who never contributed anything financially, but were always there physically... i was always gone.. doing my thing... making money...
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