I married a cougar lol. 
Plus I seen my brother almost go to jail for child support and it turned out he wasnt even the father. He has 7 kids. His wife kicked him out for a women and now he lives in my grandmother's basement. His oldest son hates his guts. And now 5 of his kids is being raised by two women. Other two he has no connections with. They live somewhere in different projects. He never had his own apartment or anything.
So kids can be a purpose for some or detriment to others.
In America once you have a child with a women. That women now has dominion over your child and also you. Once she decides to get an idea in her head you have to go down to the court house and fight for your right and pay child support. I was always scared of getting caught up in the court house as a black man. So I always wore a condom.
My wife now is going through fertility so maybe God will bless us.

Plus I seen my brother almost go to jail for child support and it turned out he wasnt even the father. He has 7 kids. His wife kicked him out for a women and now he lives in my grandmother's basement. His oldest son hates his guts. And now 5 of his kids is being raised by two women. Other two he has no connections with. They live somewhere in different projects. He never had his own apartment or anything.
So kids can be a purpose for some or detriment to others.
In America once you have a child with a women. That women now has dominion over your child and also you. Once she decides to get an idea in her head you have to go down to the court house and fight for your right and pay child support. I was always scared of getting caught up in the court house as a black man. So I always wore a condom.
My wife now is going through fertility so maybe God will bless us.
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