Originally posted by BLASTER1
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So I was with my youngest and trying to teach him about "that life" ha ha... I am a good sized white guy and my sons are thin lol... and we pass this pizza place with a whole bunch of Black kids from the projects in the Lower Haight area. So I want to teach my kid a lesson... I tell him "come on lets get some pizza" he looks at me like I have plum lost it. I persist and I guess he figures he can always run lol...
So we go into the pizza place with all the kids there and as I enter I say "hey guys whats up nice to see you" now I can see my son is praying like "oh no he didnt!!!!! why didn't he squeak up there !!!!" We get our pizza I say goodbye and leave....
Heres the thing: I know those projects. I know from teaching High school about the kids in the Western Addition and on 3rd Street... I know from many experiences if you don't try to act like you are scared of something. If you don't act disrespectfully, if you don't do stupid things... you will not have a problem. I also know (used to break my heart) that the hardest of them could use a little positive attention. Being looked at like a kid.
My point is and I want to say this very carefully.... When I call the Hood a jungle, I mean that it is a jungle MORE SO... for the kids that live there. These kids get shot, or beat down when they make a mistake that I might get a pass on. But whether it is I, or one of those kids eating pizza that day, everyone has to be aware and know how to comport oneself.
Once you know this you see there are rules and then you can know when not to do certain things, or go certain places...Like I knew years ago? in those projects? in the evening they would set up to mug people. You had to know that or you would get mugged lol.
The USA is indeed one of the most violent societies...without a doubt. But taking people's guns away, asking people to use cute names for people who want to use different bathrooms will not change the violence. Its in the blood here!
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