Could you be with a girl who would leave someone for you?
I met a girl a while back in London and she's from Argentina. She did seem to fall for me quite a lot and i liked her. Anyway when she went back we continued to talk a lot but i was very busy and in an out of the UK and never really got chance to message her, so she thought i'd lost interest and then she met someone else which is fine as we never had a relationship really and i was busy and she has to live her life.
Anyway she found out i'll be on tour and playing in Buenos Aires, so she messaged me and i said i'm probably going to stay there a week as i don't have to be anywhere for another week yada yada.
She told her friends i'm gonna be there and they were aware of her feelings for me and kept getting her phone at a party trying to call me to get her to talk to me. So i asked why she had tried to call me and then we got talking and she was saying her feelings are still there and wants to see me. I said i noticed on her instagram she has a boyfriend now, which she said yeah and its kind of serious but it will be different if i'm going and would leave him.
So that leads me to that question. Could you really have a relationship with a girl that you know has it in their personality to just dump someone for another person. Since she found out i'm going she has barely stopped messaging me even though she's with someone else. My biggest issue is that she doesn't seem to care about stringing him along until i arrive. I'd have a bit more respect if she was just honest about it and told him she might have feelings for someone else, if she really feels that strongly. I'm kind of disappointed in her approach and attitude towards him as i believed she was a bit more genuine than that.
I met a girl a while back in London and she's from Argentina. She did seem to fall for me quite a lot and i liked her. Anyway when she went back we continued to talk a lot but i was very busy and in an out of the UK and never really got chance to message her, so she thought i'd lost interest and then she met someone else which is fine as we never had a relationship really and i was busy and she has to live her life.
Anyway she found out i'll be on tour and playing in Buenos Aires, so she messaged me and i said i'm probably going to stay there a week as i don't have to be anywhere for another week yada yada.
She told her friends i'm gonna be there and they were aware of her feelings for me and kept getting her phone at a party trying to call me to get her to talk to me. So i asked why she had tried to call me and then we got talking and she was saying her feelings are still there and wants to see me. I said i noticed on her instagram she has a boyfriend now, which she said yeah and its kind of serious but it will be different if i'm going and would leave him.
So that leads me to that question. Could you really have a relationship with a girl that you know has it in their personality to just dump someone for another person. Since she found out i'm going she has barely stopped messaging me even though she's with someone else. My biggest issue is that she doesn't seem to care about stringing him along until i arrive. I'd have a bit more respect if she was just honest about it and told him she might have feelings for someone else, if she really feels that strongly. I'm kind of disappointed in her approach and attitude towards him as i believed she was a bit more genuine than that.
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