Recently my girlfriend came out to me and told me that she has a weird fetish, and I don't know what to do.
She said she is into BDSM and likes to be dominated. You know tied up, walked like a dog, spanked etc. She even surprised me for my birthday and bought a whole bunch of toys and outfits she could use so I could "play" w/ her
But I got mad and told her no. The problem is that I it goes against my deeply held beliefs. I believe that all Women are equal and should be treated with Respect. I am a strong Feminist and proud of it, and I thought she was too. How can I engage in such demeaning acts, even if she gets off on it. And I'm not even sure about that...I don't think many women if any get off on domination.
I think her fetish is just a product of the Patriarchy, and I'd feel like an ******* if I did it w/ her. What should I do? I like this girl and want to do right by her. I was thinking of posting on one of those BDSM forums and finding another "dom" who might want to work with her, so I don't have to.
Do you guys think that's a good idea? Thanks
She said she is into BDSM and likes to be dominated. You know tied up, walked like a dog, spanked etc. She even surprised me for my birthday and bought a whole bunch of toys and outfits she could use so I could "play" w/ her
But I got mad and told her no. The problem is that I it goes against my deeply held beliefs. I believe that all Women are equal and should be treated with Respect. I am a strong Feminist and proud of it, and I thought she was too. How can I engage in such demeaning acts, even if she gets off on it. And I'm not even sure about that...I don't think many women if any get off on domination.
I think her fetish is just a product of the Patriarchy, and I'd feel like an ******* if I did it w/ her. What should I do? I like this girl and want to do right by her. I was thinking of posting on one of those BDSM forums and finding another "dom" who might want to work with her, so I don't have to.
Do you guys think that's a good idea? Thanks
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