Boxing very seriously over 3.5 years and never compete- how come?!?!?!

[DesertPrince]

I dedicated my ****ing life to this sport .
gave all i got . Post in any group session the persistent in the gym , been through all ****ty newbies , sociopath , bullys , over coaching partner , kill or be killed partners..
begged for my coache to compete allways tring to bull****ing me with unclear answers.
then i secretly trained at the same time in anothםer gym that sending to competitons. At the beginning i told him that's what i point out .
instead of help me , he paired me everytime with only the newbies even thought the advanced guys in the room allways want to work with me.
What i really need , is to sit 1 on 1 with coach and set up goals , but this he is really aggressive and arrogant type of person - and he's able to verbally explode on me even if ill politely approach him.
when i asked to compete , at least there is the lowest level of bouts- even there they refused!!!!
Don't know i thought to share with you this .
Im over 30 , sacrificed a lot for this , living a life of poverty because it.
They did injustice with me . Im really really furious about this **** they literally ruined my life!!!!!!!!

[OctoberRed]

I dedicated my ****ing life to this sport .
gave all i got . Post in any group session the persistent in the gym , been through all ****ty newbies , sociopath , bullys , over coaching partner , kill or be killed partners..
begged for my coache to compete allways tring to bull****ing me with unclear answers.
then i secretly trained at the same time in anothםer gym that sending to competitons. At the beginning i told him that's what i point out .
instead of help me , he paired me everytime with only the newbies even thought the advanced guys in the room allways want to work with me.
What i really need , is to sit 1 on 1 with coach and set up goals , but this he is really aggressive and arrogant type of person - and he's able to verbally explode on me even if ill politely approach him.
when i asked to compete , at least there is the lowest level of bouts- even there they refused!!!!
Don't know i thought to share with you this .
Im over 30 , sacrificed a lot for this , living a life of poverty because it.
They did injustice with me . Im really really furious about this **** they literally ruined my life!!!!!!!!

Have you tried other gyms? other coaches?

[DesertPrince]

Have you tried other gyms? other coaches?

i tried one who agree , had some unpleasant occasion and left ( it's nothing to do with the boxing). Train there for a month
Besides that , didn't try yet.

[Rockin']

I dedicated my ****ing life to this sport .
gave all i got . Post in any group session the persistent in the gym , been through all ****ty newbies , sociopath , bullys , over coaching partner , kill or be killed partners..
begged for my coache to compete allways tring to bull****ing me with unclear answers.
then i secretly trained at the same time in anothםer gym that sending to competitons. At the beginning i told him that's what i point out .
instead of help me , he paired me everytime with only the newbies even thought the advanced guys in the room allways want to work with me.
What i really need , is to sit 1 on 1 with coach and set up goals , but this he is really aggressive and arrogant type of person - and he's able to verbally explode on me even if ill politely approach him.
when i asked to compete , at least there is the lowest level of bouts- even there they refused!!!!
Don't know i thought to share with you this .
Im over 30 , sacrificed a lot for this , living a life of poverty because it.
They did injustice with me . Im really really furious about this **** they literally ruined my life!!!!!!!!

Do not blame boxing for 'ruining' your life. If you're over 30 and living in poverty......... lifes choices. Besides, being over 30 and starting to box is commendable, but did you believe that you were going to bring in millions in a short while or something?

If you want to compete then find out who you must contact to get an amateur passbook, get certified and get your own fights. Best to have somebody close to you who knows the local boxing crowd.

I believe in the ams that you can't compeie against somebody with a 10+ year age difference. It could be difficult to find a suitable opponent for you.............Rockin'

[DesertPrince]

Do not blame boxing for 'ruining' your life. If you're over 30 and living in poverty......... lifes choices. Besides, being over 30 and starting to box is commendable, but did you believe that you were going to bring in millions in a short while or something?

If you want to compete then find out who you must contact to get an amateur passbook, get certified and get your own fights. Best to have somebody close to you who knows the local boxing crowd..............Rockin'

Well , you must adjust your schedule that is not flexible , wait to the late night group sessions have a very hard consequences to your life , hang out with a 3 hours of sleep per day , barely function because of this.

Never believed , or thought or point out ( at least at the beginning) to 'bring a millions' in a short time that was not what i mean.
I did hard work so the minimum i do deserve is at least semi amateur bout , i think in English its called 'smokin bout' that's all , fair enough.
So yes , it made injustice with me.
off course im not in a pro level.

[Rockin']

Well , you must adjust your schedule that is not flexible , wait to the late night group sessions have a very hard consequences to your life , hang out with a 3 hours of sleep per day , barely function because of this.

Never believed , or thought or point out ( at least at the beginning) to 'bring a millions' in a short time that was not what i mean.
I did hard work so the minimum i do deserve is at least semi amateur bout , i think in English its called 'smokin bout' that's all , fair enough.
So yes , it made injustice with me.
off course im not in a pro level.

I lived the life, I understand about the schedule.

If you paid your dues than you should be able to compete.

But again, it could be very difficult to find a boxer with your limited experience level, @ your weight, with a compliable number of bouts with in the age limit, very difficult. I'd be prepared to travel to make this happen if I were you............... Rockin'

[OctoberRed]

I lived the life, I understand about the schedule.

If you paid your dues than you should be able to compete.

But again, it could be very difficult to find a boxer with your limited experience level, @ your weight, with a compliable number of bouts with in the age limit, very difficult. I'd be prepared to travel to make this happen if I were you............... Rockin'

Well said, Rockin

[BodyBagz]

No sense in getting angry now. Won't change a thing. Either keep trying or give it up.

Are you sure you're good enough ?

[Lomadeaux]

I'd have to see you in a gym. You can say anything you want on here, but I'd have to see what level you're at. It's possible your coaches do not want you to compete because you're not ready and you might get hurt. If you really want to compete but you haven't yet, that's on you. Nobody else. If you don't have your amateur book then you haven't even thought about really competing yet.

[DesertPrince]

No sense in getting angry now. Won't change a thing. Either keep trying or give it up.

Are you sure you're good enough ?

like i said before , since English is not my native language , im not sure what is the the correct word , i wanted at less compete as much as i know im America its called ' smokin bout' , you know those firsts bout that you match with a fighter in your level and experience from another local gym , not bout tht record on your balance.