I cried after a sparring session....

[JulioCesaChavez]

It shows heart to come back after being beat and humiliated. That would impress any coach.

Depends what you mean by comeback? You're being ambiguous. If he just cameback to the gym or went back in the ring that session and put out the same performance, then I do NOT think so!! If he cameback to be a better fighter who didn't cry like a girl then yeah, that was what I was saying.

My experience of top trainers are that they are cold heartless ****ers, and extremely professional. They are not quite so empathetic as you and I. They are waiting for YOU to go out of YOUR way and impress them. If they saw this, they would think oh he's crying BIG DEAL. Trust me mate, they do NOT give a flying ****. What he would ahve to do to impress this coach is go back to gym and instead of crying train hard enough to kick some arse. This may be the unpalatable truth but this is how top trainers (even in the am's) operate. In some gyms that I have been too, they would actually ask you to leave after doing that.

[chilly9876]

Maybe they're just like that with you chavez. Cos i would be if i was a trainer.
You're aka rafael benitez and all the other names you've been banned with.
Secondly with some users you say you dont box, in others such as this one you say you box and have been doing for years.
The truth is that you're an internet warrior who comes here to be brash and ****y to somehow try and compensate for you shortcomings in real life.

[kamicazze]

*****! joking kid i cried when i first lost 2

[britnostalgic]

I sparred with a pro years ago, in the first round I was catching him with everything... he didn't know what hit him, so he upped it a level - and so did I. This guy was getting beat pretty bad and everyone in our Gym stopped to watch. This was a guy that had fought around eleven fights and I'd never stepped foot in a pro ring. Anyway, after the longest three mins of his life I was taking my gloves off and he came up and said "two more rounds". I was knackered as I'd put everything into it and originally he said only one round. I came out the 2nd round and dropped him with a low right to the body, he made it to the third round and basically I got my arse handed to me... I nearly cried because I felt I'd let my trainer down and club.

That night I went home and cried for about 5-10 mins in my wifes arms... then she said "that's how I know your a real man".

I've never fought the guy since, but he respects me and I have a lot of respect for him. He said to me about a year after, "I thought you were gonna beat me that night... but then you just ran out of steam, work harder man". Strange how we have kinda ended up good friends.

Anyway, work harder man.

[JulioCesaChavez]

Maybe they're just like that with you chavez. Cos i would be if i was a trainer.
You're aka rafael benitez and all the other names you've been banned with.
Secondly with some users you say you dont box, in others such as this one you say you box and have been doing for years.
The truth is that you're an internet warrior who comes here to be brash and ****y to somehow try and compensate for you shortcomings in real life.

Haha, ****** alt in the red! I never said I did not box because I have, so number one you are lying. Number two, they were never like that with me coz I don't cry like a girl, and finally if you knew anything about boxing you would know it is a discipline sport. In most cases a cry baby cannot cut it and in clubs with less facilities you don't need an emotionally weak person lacking in ability crowding up the gym when you have WAITING lists.

All I am saying is non-recreational gyms may show you door as a warning for serious people who may be fooled into thinking its ok to be a girl crying to mom for cookies and milk! I was fifteen not so long ago and it sounds more like something a 5 year old would do. I've never seen a top fighjter cry, just ******* so if you want to cry like a biyatch then just go **** yoursel 'chilly'.

[Oriachim]

I've had my ass whooped in the ring, but I just kept coming back. Its not our fault that we keep getting put in the ring with people 30lbs+ bigger than us cause we're so skinny. Infact in my last real fight, I was winning first 2 rounds... then i get hit flush, standing count, then the guy slaps me, standing count... then i block his hits and my corner throws towel in, when nobody agrees with him. To come back after that takes deterimination.

[ironalex]

Thats ok kid. Thanks for sharing.

It's a typical coach ploy to put you in with a more experienced, heavier guy, knowing that you would get your ass kicked. What the coach wants to see is not the beat-down itself, but how you respond. The session you've just been trough is an early make-em or break-em. If you respond in a determined fashion the coach is sure to pay attention to your development.

Cheer up. Nothing to be ashamed of when you are up against a guy with comparatively much more experience.

cosign what this guy says.

[slickwalt210]

crying?????? wtf ???? the boxing ring is no place to cry. if you are over ten years old and crying in the ring, ur soft.. boxing is not your sport..lol i boxed amateur for 13 years and never thought of crying, even when i lost in the olympic trials in 96'....

[mellow_mood]

Lmao!! Pwned!!

que cabron jajajajajaj

[col Blake]

ya thts right i cried after getting my ass kicked. I wasn't crying like "crying" i was tearing up, sniffing and trying to hold it in.

My coach put me in sparring against a guy whose been doing it for atleast one year, but i've been doing it for 2 weeks (10 classes) and i sparred a lot of people and did great, like my coach said i had loads of potential, but this one guy whose close to 6'0 and weighed about 140 LB and i was just 5'6 weighing only 115LB, just tore me down to pieces, it wasnt an ass kick, it was a massacre! anyways, after the sparring session, i was ok, but then i let go my tears and my coach tried to confront me and so did the guy i sparred with, not to mention there were only 3 people in the gym (thank god), and they were supportive of me to.

Anyways i don't know why i'm sharing this, but, i'm not an emotional person, i wasnt hurt physically, i was drained mentally, and it hurt my pride. But i'm taking this beat down and using it as a motivation and try even hardder next time.

Btw i'm 15.....ya make fun of me if u want lol, call me a softy, *****, i know...iknow....*hahah he got his ass kicked and now he's crying hahaha*

pull yourself togeather you big girl, if anything is worth having then it's going to be hard work getting it, suck it up, take it as lesson learned. You are brave enough to get in the ring most people would crumble at thought you did'nt.
I would wager you were more angry than upset.
Back on the bike son it's the only way or it might eat you up.