Comments Thread For: Ouma Jailed: KO's Male For Alleged Gay Advances

[Bullrush]

I don't know how long Ouma's been in this country - but in other places in this world being invited back to someone else's home is not taken as a sign of friendship, not a sexual advance.

You mean like France? If some random dude you never met before brings you home that night to have a drink he's a ******. Period. I don't care what city or country you live in. You don't ask some dude you never met before to come over that same night - alone - to spend time with him. It's absolutely gay.

[Brandish]

A move in this situation is probably an attempted kiss or hug. An attack is doing physical harm towards somebody, you dumbass. The article would have mentioned attempted assault or ATTACK if the guy tried to throw a punch or take him to the ground etc.

The gay guy was foolish to keep trying after he was rejected, although I don't blame him considering Ouma's gay signals. But to say that he deserved to get permanently brain damaged by a professional fighting machine for misreading a closeted dude's signals is silly.

did the article say kiss or hug, and using your logic that is still assault on the part of the gay guy.

go walk up to a man in the street and try and kiss him, the guy has every right to smack you away.

if ouma said no thanks, and got up to leave that should have been the end of it.

and the only dumbass is you. any unwanted sexual advance is considered battery. ouma should file charges against the guy.

[JJRod]

Would it be simpler to just say in MOST countries when a guy invites you to his house it isn't codespeak for tie you up and do you up the ass?

Forget about East Africa vs West Africa. Basically everywhere on Earth other than a few cities in the US/UK/CAN.

I mean maybe Ouma is gay like some of you are getting at.
I'm biased because as someone raised in a foreign culture I remember moving to LA/HW and having to adjust to how there was so much gay in the air, guys are afraid to even make eye contact at a business lunch. I would not have assumed "stop by for drinks" meant raunchy gay sex.

If a man you just met invited you to his house one on one to have drinks, are you telling me you wouldn't be a bit su****ious?

[Brandish]

You mean like France? If some random dude you never met before brings you home that night to have a drink he's a ******. Period. I don't care what city or country you live in. You don't ask some dude you never met before to come over that same night - alone - to spend time with him. It's absolutely gay.

even if ouma is gay if he said no and the other guy kept coming after him then he has the right to defend himself. do you dispute that.

[BKM-2010]

did the article say kiss or hug, and using your logic that is still assault on the part of the gay guy.

go walk up to a man in the street and try and kiss him, the guy has every right to smack you away.

What a numbskull, that situation is infinitely different than what we're dealing with here. You're comparing a random attempted kiss on a guy on the street you've never seen before to: trying romantic advances towards a guy who was befriending you, invited you over to his house to drink and possibly more than what we're not told. The latter is not assault or an attack and thankfully the justice system actually is able to differentiate situations and not compare it so silly black and white situations like yours.

if ouma said no thanks, and got up to leave that should have been the end of it.

and the only dumbass is you. any unwanted sexual advance is considered battery. ouma should file charges against the guy.

I agree it should have ended, but that was not the proper response from Ouma. I have been in situations where I tried one more thing with a girl who was rejecting me most of the night. What happens then is she pushes me away and I back off and tell her I'm sorry. Nothing in this article says that the gay guy did not back off from Ouma in that final move.

[Fr3$h]

If a man you just met invited you to his house one on one to have drinks, are you telling me you wouldn't be a bit su****ious?

It depends on the context I guess. You have to know how the "greater Hollywood area" is though. Some parts are the ****** where you wouldn't go for anything but drugs/crime/****sex or something else suspect.

Some parts are very high rent party/hangout apartments with balconies/pools, wet bars, just rich guys who invite everyone they meet over.

If we are having a good conversation and just start walking a couple blocks toward someone's luxury apartment and they offer me something to drink is different than the guy just talks to me for 5 minutes winking at me and pointing at his crotch.

This is making me nauseated though, I keep imagining some dude trying to kiss Ouma



"hey baby how about drinks at my place"
I'm out of here!!

[bklynboy]

You mean like France? If some random dude you never met before brings you home that night to have a drink he's a ******. Period. I don't care what city or country you live in. You don't ask some dude you never met before to come over that same night - alone - to spend time with him. It's absolutely gay.

I was just saying that some places holding hands isn't gay; that I've been places where inviting people home is a lot more common and normal than it is here in the states. Maybe he didn't read it the same as we do. As of now - I'm giving him the benefit of the doubt.

(referring back to my original post) jrrod02 made the point that there is a difference between groups of people and one-on-one. And, yes. In my case it was always a group of people and never one-on-one.

[Brandish]

What a numbskull, that situation is infinitely different than what we're dealing with here. You're comparing a random attempted kiss on a guy on the street you've never seen before to: trying romantic advances towards a guy who was befriending you, invited you over to his house to drink and possibly more than what we're not told. The latter is not assault or an attack and thankfully the justice system actually is able to differentiate situations and not compare it so silly black and white situations like yours.



I agree it should have ended, but that was not the proper response from Ouma. I have been in situations where I tried one more thing with a girl who was rejecting me most of the night. What happens then is she pushes me away and I back off and tell her I'm sorry. Nothing in this article says that the gay guy did not back off from Ouma in that final move.

that's the second time you called me a name, you sound like that gay guy who ouma smacked away. mad because you can't get your way.

i'm done talking to you jack.ass welcome to my ignore list.

[zapdos]

LOL ive never gone back to anyones house I don't think, unless a friend knows them. or I know the exact reason Im going back there.

first thing I thought was daaaaaamn, that's gay.

It is kind of gay, if somebody said to me, come back to mine, id ask why, if he said to drink, id be like, we are drinking now, and if he said, he had some good weed or drugs, maybe i'd say yeah, maybe, not sure though.

to be fair, when I go a bar, im looking at girls. not even thinking of talking to a random guy unless I no they come up for me for a laugh, which occasionally happens, but it would never go far enough for them to come back to mine.

going to be funny to hear what the gay dude has to say, after hearing both sides, ill draw my own conclusion.

hope there's an update

[Bullrush]

even if ouma is gay if he said no and the other guy kept coming after him then he has the right to defend himself. do you dispute that.

Not at all.