Originally posted by daggum
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People have a habit of neglecting scale when they wage opinions and it snowballs... I had an ugly encounter with a guy who likes to critisize others in the martial arts, my own particular baliwick. He gets this kid, a nice kid who fights professionally and he starts sort of demanding, Spanish Inquisition style, (I am exxagerating) that he consent that his father was a bad person, role model etc. The kid has more sense and in the interview qualifies but no, this idiot goes on and on...
heres the thing Daggum: This "horrible father" coached his kid, took care of his kid, trained his kid... his horrible crime? He exxagerated,lied to his kid about being a fighting champion. The holier than though martial arts guy was all up on a righteous spree about misrepresenting one's art and achievements... Because after all he was a qualified Brazilian Brown Belt! Humph! My point was that the guy was an ******. He was taking a foible and exxagerating it misrepresenting the whole situation. Many fathers do not coach, train or invest any time or love in their kids.
There is no "real data" there are different sources of data and different relationships that data points out. You need a totality of circumstances to make a judgement about a situation, usually from more than one data source.
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