Touching gloves after an accidental foul is ok, but that should be it, it can get excessive and out of line a la Shane Moseley and that is not something fans want to see
I agree, you tap once at the beginning under the ref's instruction and maybe again for the final round (although personally I don't think its necessary). You can be friendly after the fight is over, in the ring it should be war.
i think the only time there should be touching of gloves is at the pre-fight instructions and at the start of the final round, as an actual rule of the sport. there's no need to apologize during a fight, the referee is there to determine whether it was an accident or intentional.
definitely save the hugs and kisses for after the fight.