Surprised Berto Pulled Out...

What happened to the saying "the show must go on"? Buster Douglas fought the fight of his life and beat Mike Tyson after his mom died. He too was in training for the fight when his mom died. I don't care if 20 of my family members die, my moms death would be 100 times worse. No big deal though, Berto was going to lose that fight anyway. There are more than 6 billion people in this world. I know that you won't be able to read between the lines so I'll make it clear, people cope with loss differently.

He was about to be put on an international stage, on which he could have spoken publicly about the situation in Haiti, relief organizations, etc... NOT TO MENTION that he was going to receive a LARGE purse, which he could have donated to Haiti. All in all, seems like a pretty squandered opportunity given the circumstances. It's only an evening out of his schedule, and win lose or draw at this point that's not what's important anymore, obviously. I understand where you are coming from. A large purse would be helpful for his family and others in Haiti. Unfortunately his mind might not be as much on providing monetary support Jan 22 as it is providing mental and emotional support Jan 21.

why don't you go lose some aunts, cousins and uncles in a natural disaster...also think about your sister and nephew being dead for 3 days...then tell me if you want to fight... berto is already in the top 10 for WWs...he will get this opportunity again...i can image no one around him thought like this...it's call empathy...you fail horribly at it...

I know what youre saying man but there is no use of taking the fight just to give it more exposure if you cant win. If he could pull it together and win then you may be right but if you saw the interview on ESPN with Berto then you would know that he was in no position to be in a ring. He wouldve got dominated. He wasnt mentally ready for this fight at all. The tragedy was definitely on his mind. Go to the ESPN Videos website under boxing and watch it and then you will know that he couldnt fight Wow! Great counter point. I am swayed your way now.

He was about to be put on an international stage, on which he could have spoken publicly about the situation in Haiti, relief organizations, etc... NOT TO MENTION that he was going to receive a LARGE purse, which he could have donated to Haiti. All in all, seems like a pretty squandered opportunity given the circumstances. It's only an evening out of his schedule, and win lose or draw at this point that's not what's important anymore, obviously. I know what youre saying man but there is no use of taking the fight just to give it more exposure if you cant win. If he could pull it together and win then you may be right but if you saw the interview on ESPN with Berto then you would know that he was in no position to be in a ring. He wouldve got dominated. He wasnt mentally ready for this fight at all. The tragedy was definitely on his mind. Go to the ESPN Videos website under boxing and watch it and then you will know that he couldnt fight

I'm not disrespecting or undermining his loss, it's obviously a tragedy - I would just personally take advantage of that opportunity to do A LOT MORE for Haiti than he is by going down there this weekend. I feel you man. It was a tough decision I;m sure but I think I would have used the BIG STAGE to recruit more relief efforts and the BIG PURSE to help as much as possible.

Consider Samuel Dalambert's situation versus Andre Berto's Samuel Dalembert, back from Haiti with a heavy heart The game between the Sixers and the Blazers started at 7 p.m. "I'd say he was running in here at about 6:40," says Sixers P.R. man Michael Preston. Samuel Dalembert, starting center and -- post-earthquake -- Haiti's celebrity spokesperson, advocate and benefactor, was screaming back into town after a harried visit to his distressed home country. The Sixers lost to the Timberwolves in overtime late Monday night. After the game, Dalembert left the team and made his way to Port-au-Prince with Project Medishare. It was a struggle to get back to Philadelphia in time for tonight's game, but that was nothing compared to the challenges he found in Haiti. He cries talking about what he found there. For instance children without parents, wandering in desperation. "I'm doing my best," he says. "I'll take another trip with UNICEF. So we can try to get all those children out there ... you know, we have parents who have been trying to adopt for two or three years." At this point, tears are streaming down Dalembert's face. "You know and ... that's frustrating me ... you're asking people to help. And kids have parents over there who want to adopt them. I've got a hundred parents, and you have a bunch of guys sitting down with the freaking papers. All it takes is one hour to go over everything, you know what I'm saying? "I saw somebody's leg amputated in front of me. Surgeries performed on a kitchen table ... I'm talking about a folding kitchen table ... I have some disturbing pictures. And it hurts. ... There was no surgery room ... You heard him screaming. ... Not enough alcohol. Things we take for granted, you know. They try to make one bottle of alcohol last. "Problems just keep occurring. There's no machinery to move things around. It's taking a long time to locate the people. I know everybody is doing their best. ... It's crazy over there. "One thing really touched my heart the most is all the children. A lot of homeless children." Dalembert says he and Medishare are in the process of negotiating to get tents for "a ton" of people in Haiti. "I had a meeting with the president," he says. "Myself and Alonzo Mourning. We were talking to see what's going on. The situation is so critical. They try to really ... I know everybody is trying to do their best. But the fact that you have planes that want to land, but are not able to land because the traffic ... things are not prioritized right now. It's too much to ask, but I will ask for all organizations out there to get together, and work together, to make this thing happen. I'll do my best here. The only thing I can do is try to raise as much money as possible, going to the right place." Dalembert arrived in Florida early this morning, and had finally laid down in bed for the first time in ages. Three hours later, his phone started ringing like crazy -- it was his father, still in Haiti, saying there had been another earthquake -- an aftershock. He can't remember the last time he slept well. He was asked how he can keep playing NBA basketball (he finished this game with 10 points and 15 rebounds). "I know we are struggling. I wanted to go out there and contribute. I don't know. I've been tired man. Just dead. I don't know what's keeping me up. Just the urge to try to help. It's the urge to try to reach out to those people there. I know I'm not going to save the whole country. I know that. But I know I can save a lot of life. Making it just a little bit better. "Maybe not having a house or a roof over your head, just the fact that you have that tent. A family of eight would be able to stay in that tent and feel good that we have something over our head and somebody looking out for us. That's why I try to go out there and do the best I can. "I know God is watching over us. I know he's really going to get us through this. "Sleep is ... shoo ... I keep drinking energy drinks, man. I look like a ghost, man. I can't believe it. It's mind-blowing. I'm talking to different organizations about OK, we've got this, we'll try to get this out there, we're trying to donate planes. "And I'm going to do something in Philly. I will have a plane come in here, in Philly, and collect stuff next week ... and I will have the plane take the stuff over there. Also I will let people know that if doctors want to give their time, that plane can go over there bringing doctors over there. Hopefully we'll make huge progress. Hopefully we'll save more lives." As for the people he met in Haiti, Dalembert says: "I salute all of them. ... All I see is they're still trying to find all the bodies. You still see people holding strong. They're still finding bodies after the first earthquake and people are still holding strong, man. That tells you a lot about us, man. We're out there holding strong. "I know that deep inside, we need more. The I was looking at -- you can't even fit another person. You're walking on top of people, saying excuse me. ... Flying mosquitoes. A couple of people came to me and said 'please, I haven't drunk water in X amount of days. I had to go in my bag and give them a little bottle of water and they said 'thank you so much, thank you so much.'"

Describe to me EXACTLY - with words - how that is a clueless suggestion. The man's countrymen and family were devestated by a natural disaster, and in turn he pulls out from his scheduled fight. Obvious decision, but how can you deny the benefits of going through with the fight. Winning or losing is not a concern of his at the moment, obviously, so it's not as if he's afraid of going forward for lack of focus or time in training. It offers him a WORLDWIDE stage from which he can raise awareness for relief efforts in Haiti and at the same time make a shit load of money which could be utilized by the red cross, or his own personal relief efforts. Argue that honestly. I dont think he can focus with that kind of loss. And it s going to be unfair if he is not 100% for the fight. Mental preparations > Physical

While I agree it would've been good if Berto fought through this, I guess this situation just shows again how important emotional stability (not just physical) is to fighters. To see a classic example of what can happen (when a fighter is not mentally prepared) check out Lennox Lewis vs. Oliver McCall II (1997) when Oliver was messed up from drug addiction withdrawal.

This thread is what's wrong with boxingscene.com I'm proposing a theoretical scenario meant only for speculation and reflection - but INSTEAD it is interpreted as some kind of attack on Berto, and everyone rushes to his defense and gets hostile. Try having an intelligent conversation for once without constantly trying to take sides and toe a line in the dirt. This isn't ****ing elementary school. Grow up, everyone. *standing ovation*

You're talking about him like he's your girlfriend and I'm making fun of her clubbed fingers. I'm suggesting an alternative to pulling out which would have done MORE for what I would think his ambitions would be. Lets see how focused you are on your tasks at work when just 1 member of your family dies. Now, multiply that by 100 when you factor in getting in the ring with a multiple world class veteran champion.

Read my post above....Not everyone is the same.... I'm just instigating, thats all. lol

What happened to the saying "the show must go on"? Buster Douglas fought the fight of his life and beat Mike Tyson after his mom died. He too was in training for the fight when his mom died. I don't care if 20 of my family members die, my moms death would be 100 times worse. No big deal though, Berto was going to lose that fight anyway. Read my post above....Not everyone is the same....

What happened to the saying "the show must go on"? Buster Douglas fought the fight of his life and beat Mike Tyson after his mom died. He too was in training for the fight when his mom died. I don't care if 20 of my family members die, my moms death would be 100 times worse. No big deal though, Berto was going to lose that fight anyway.

who's to say he would even be mentally there to win? what a dumbass argument.

I'm not disrespecting or undermining his loss, it's obviously a tragedy - I would just personally take advantage of that opportunity to do A LOT MORE for Haiti than he is by going down there this weekend. People handle the death of someone close to them differently....Some people use it as a motivation to perform better while some can't think or act straight because of the loss....Berto is part of the 2nd group....

Dude, if you don't know Berto is hurting inside and we don't know what's really going on inside his head. He deserves to be left alone and let him grieve on his own terms. Let it go and try to respect his own decision.

This thread is what's wrong with boxingscene.com I'm proposing a theoretical scenario meant only for speculation and reflection - but INSTEAD it is interpreted as some kind of attack on Berto, and everyone rushes to his defense and gets hostile. Try having an intelligent conversation for once without constantly trying to take sides and toe a line in the dirt. This isn't ****ing elementary school. Grow up, everyone.

Describe to me EXACTLY - with words - how that is a clueless suggestion. The man's countrymen and family were devestated by a natural disaster, and in turn he pulls out from his scheduled fight. Obvious decision, but how can you deny the benefits of going through with the fight. Winning or losing is not a concern of his at the moment, obviously, so it's not as if he's afraid of going forward for lack of focus or time in training. It offers him a WORLDWIDE stage from which he can raise awareness for relief efforts in Haiti and at the same time make a shit load of money which could be utilized by the red cross, or his own personal relief efforts. Argue that honestly. Look, your overall idea sounds good in theory. But the magnitude of his current situation is waaaaayyy beyond your comprehension as well as mine. If the dude is unable to train properly due to mental/physical/emotional exhaustion, then let him be. It would only be a bad idea and a serious risk to his health if he were to fight SSM while not undergoing proper training. I really don't wanna argue point for point w/ you b/c that would be a waste of energy. Just take his decision for what it is....

Describe to me EXACTLY - with words - how that is a clueless suggestion. The man's countrymen and family were devestated by a natural disaster, and in turn he pulls out from his scheduled fight. Obvious decision, but how can you deny the benefits of going through with the fight. Winning or losing is not a concern of his at the moment, obviously, so it's not as if he's afraid of going forward for lack of focus or time in training. It offers him a WORLDWIDE stage from which he can raise awareness for relief efforts in Haiti and at the same time make a shit load of money which could be utilized by the red cross, or his own personal relief efforts. Argue that honestly.