and its not like she has some fancy car that gold diggers get. she has a little suv and you saw she wasnt blinged out. shes just not that type of person.
roger's girlfriend
actually she is smart. i trained with roger for 2 months and shes works and goes to school. she took care him in regards to his diabetes and stuff. i dont think shes a gold digger. shes the sweetest girl when you meet her.
My Baby!!!!! Where've you been?
LOL.
There are many women who are in it for monetary gain. There are just as many who are not. Now, I am not saying I'd categorize Kim the latter.
I'm great! Helping a friend open up a restaurant here has slowed my post down here. I've been online some, but over in myspace posting in their forums about boxing. Do you think a ugly mofu like Roger would have this young girl if he didn't have money and fame? Come on, now.
Beauty...woman always want to think this. Just sayin.
My Baby!!!!! Where've you been?
LOL.
There are many women who are in it for monetary gain. There are just as many who are not. Now, I am not saying I'd categorize Kim the latter.
Not saying that I agree with him or anything, and not saying that all women are all about money, but women are much less romantic and much more practical then we are used to thinking.
This was my whole idea.
I can agree to a great degree. More and more, women are thinking less with their hearts and more with their minds.
There are indeed many women who feel in totality that if it don't make dollas than it don't make cents. (sense.)
Women always think about money(and things material).
In fact, the first time you ask the girl to go to the movies with you she already knows the date of the wedding and the name of your future children.
Aww, now I just gave you props. What is this?????
No, this is not true. I hardly think one date is sufficient enough to determine matrimony. Women and men consider differently when dating and mating, this is true.
However when a woman has money, it certainly becomes more about what else a man brings to the table other than finances.
This has nothing to do with my age, just goes with my knowledge of the relationship base and a bit of knowledge of human nature.
It is all actually very simple and based on one thing -- our testosterone. The testosterone in younger males is higher then in older males, which is our strength and our weakness at the same time.
High testosterone males(especially young ones) are rather easy to manipulate(at first) but almost impossible to control openly, older males, on the other hand are much easier to control because in many cases these older(especially the ones that are lonely) males are looking to be controlled, in a way they are looking to get back to their childhood.
Anyway, back to our relationship discussion, it is very rare and indeed unique if both the man and the women are at the same level in the relationship, usually someone is one up compared to it's counterpart and contrary to popular belief women love to be in control of their man(which is why "rugged but sweet" is so appealing to many women) and as I said, it is much easier to get it done with the older guy.
Just my 2 cents, and btw, if you wanna know my age, I am 21.
Very interesting analysis, Sir. Props for this.
I love a rugged gentleman. Almost would seem like an oxymoron, however they do exist. At all levels in life.
cus ellerbe is married, the rest of the crew is busy f'n skanky bitches and not looking for a commitment.. probably won't give up the money. Roger is more vulnerable, punch drunk and like someone else said.. thinks he still has it. He just ripe for the picking. There is a chance that she with him for the love, but its a slim one in my eyes. Maybe she does love him but now but I doubt she came into the picture not even thinking about the money.
I agree with that.
I can see where the logic lies, however it's a very limited way of thinking. She was an attractive woman. There are men who are more attractive than Roger with more money, close to the circle, in the circle etc. Why Roger?
cus ellerbe is married, the rest of the crew is busy f'n skanky bitches and not looking for a commitment.. probably won't give up the money. Roger is more vulnerable, punch drunk and like someone else said.. thinks he still has it. He just ripe for the picking. There is a chance that she with him for the love, but its a slim one in my eyes. Maybe she does love him but now but I doubt she came into the picture not even thinking about the money.
now i ain't saying she a gold digga, but she ain't messin with no broke n!gga.
face it, Roger isn't much too look at. He isn't a very interesting character either.. that bitch is in it for the money, if not she would be with someone a bit more younger and more attractive
I can see where the logic lies, however it's a very limited way of thinking. She was an attractive woman. There are men who are more attractive than Roger with more money, close to the circle, in the circle etc. Why Roger?
now i ain't saying she a gold digga, but she ain't messin with no broke n!gga.
face it, Roger isn't much too look at. He isn't a very interesting character either.. that bitch is in it for the money, if not she would be with someone a bit more younger and more attractive
So, in other words you are saying that some women like their guys to be older because they would just argue with them less and thus these women can take on more dominating role in the relationship...
How old are you?
I am guessing younger than I first suspected based on this response. If you took this from what I stated, thus my point is proven.
In all fairness, some women may find it easier to dominate a younger gent. Especially women who are secure. (Physically, financially etc.)
I would be surprised, to say the least, but if it's not about money, the man has to have some sort of unique quality to make the girl interested. I mean he could be a sort of a mentor for her, but I rarely hear of cases like this.
And to be frank, with Roger, I mean, he is not a bad guy but he never struck me as a guy who could charm a woman without the help of the rohypnol.
OMG!!! You are too much. Honestly, a lot of younger women are attracted to older men because they are more stimulating, holistically. Men do advance mentally, but not always simultaneously with their female counterparts. Sometimes, it's just easier to communicate what it is you desire to a man who has lived some and is less inhibited. (Not just physically.)
As for Roger, he wouldn't be my type. She may very well be a gold digger. However, everyone has something desirable about them. Maybe she sees somethig in him that we don't.