Originally posted by FlatLine
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I told him about how he treated me like a child and disrespected me. I told him how I had trouble with his lectures and he seemed to think they were "discussions" but I explained how he would just dismiss anything I tried to say and go on repeating himself for 30 minutes.
You asked about how the situation started. Honestly, it was very benign. When he would show my some crazy exaggerated move I would just look at him confused and say "I didn't do that" with no attitude at all except for confusion. He took offense to this and then gave me an attitude. Since I really didn't do the thing he showed me, I also felt disrespected from his attitude and how he would just throw up his arms and storm off. 2 months ago I finally figured out that he was just EXTREMELY bad at mimicking movement.
The attitude may have escalated from what we both perceived as disrespect. When I mentioned the disrespect yesterday he seemed shocked when I clarified that HE was also disrespecting ME. He first assumed I meant the other way around.
Anyway, he wants me to go back and try one more week. I am really torn about it. I'm scared of going back to a bad relationship where I will only get hurt again. It is past the time when I normally go, and I am just sitting home not knowing what to do.
Things don't get to me often. Usually little things build up for a long time over months until something big sets it off and I explode. He set me off 4 times now.
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