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  • My life feels empty and boring

    I can sometimes see some lookups, around people with problems and it seems that there are good answers, so I also try as anonymous to get your input

    I live in small city with 100K inhabitants in Denmark and have always lived here, I also have my entire social network etc here. My family is not close to me at all, and I only see them at christmas and birthdays. I spend almost all my time going to school, sitting at home and playing or training, and a couple of times a month I see my friends, it used to be nearly everyday, but the last year that have changed, my friends have either started to get girlfriends and sitting there at home, or simply not going out on weekends. Since I am a really social person and, as I said, has no family really, friends have always been the most important to me, I left my girlfriend 6 months ago. And sadly, i must admit that my situation is making me depressed, and I am tired of being a 24 years old, and spend my weekends at home on the couch, like my weekdays. I know some love this, and thats great, but i love being social.

    I finish my 2 year business academy education next year, and I have therefore strongly considered taking the PBA (1.5 years extra so it is a full bachelor degree) in Copenhagen ( the capital with 1+ million people ) or wait for it and take the master degree in Copenhagen, my best friend lives over there and he loves it. I feel that i am good at getting new social relationships, have always been well-liked on at the schools/educations that i have been studying over time. Do you guys have any advice for me, or tried something similar

    Good Sunday

  • #2
    Hey man.

    You can always try to socialize in places you know females are going to be around...it doesn't take much to start a conversation. Worst case scenario, nothing pops up and you go back home.

    Another thing you could always give a shot is dating apps to at least get to know some females that might have a thing or two in common with ya.

    Also you could start a new hobby! I'm trying to learn guitar...I'm a mess, but I'm hard-headed so I don't quit and probably never will, I have fun even playing some of my own made nonsense.

    Hope that helps

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    • #3
      I think you are on the right track, you could just schedule some trips now and again 'Purchase a Euro-rail pass etc' jump on a train and travel Europe from time to time.

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      • #4
        That's some baby ting

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        • #5
          First I want you to give your life to God surrender all.that's the most important thing then surround yourself with positive people.you'll be okay buddy

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          • #6
            Originally posted by Moller View Post
            I can sometimes see some lookups, around people with problems and it seems that there are good answers, so I also try as anonymous to get your input

            I live in small city with 100K inhabitants in Denmark and have always lived here, I also have my entire social network etc here. My family is not close to me at all, and I only see them at christmas and birthdays. I spend almost all my time going to school, sitting at home and playing or training, and a couple of times a month I see my friends, it used to be nearly everyday, but the last year that have changed, my friends have either started to get girlfriends and sitting there at home, or simply not going out on weekends. Since I am a really social person and, as I said, has no family really, friends have always been the most important to me, I left my girlfriend 6 months ago. And sadly, i must admit that my situation is making me depressed, and I am tired of being a 24 years old, and spend my weekends at home on the couch, like my weekdays. I know some love this, and thats great, but i love being social.

            I finish my 2 year business academy education next year, and I have therefore strongly considered taking the PBA (1.5 years extra so it is a full bachelor degree) in Copenhagen ( the capital with 1+ million people ) or wait for it and take the master degree in Copenhagen, my best friend lives over there and he loves it. I feel that i am good at getting new social relationships, have always been well-liked on at the schools/educations that i have been studying over time. Do you guys have any advice for me, or tried something similar

            Good Sunday
            Take up playing poker for money.

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            • #7
              Originally posted by Moller View Post
              I can sometimes see some lookups, around people with problems and it seems that there are good answers, so I also try as anonymous to get your input

              I live in small city with 100K inhabitants in Denmark and have always lived here, I also have my entire social network etc here. My family is not close to me at all, and I only see them at christmas and birthdays. I spend almost all my time going to school, sitting at home and playing or training, and a couple of times a month I see my friends, it used to be nearly everyday, but the last year that have changed, my friends have either started to get girlfriends and sitting there at home, or simply not going out on weekends. Since I am a really social person and, as I said, has no family really, friends have always been the most important to me, I left my girlfriend 6 months ago. And sadly, i must admit that my situation is making me depressed, and I am tired of being a 24 years old, and spend my weekends at home on the couch, like my weekdays. I know some love this, and thats great, but i love being social.

              I finish my 2 year business academy education next year, and I have therefore strongly considered taking the PBA (1.5 years extra so it is a full bachelor degree) in Copenhagen ( the capital with 1+ million people ) or wait for it and take the master degree in Copenhagen, my best friend lives over there and he loves it. I feel that i am good at getting new social relationships, have always been well-liked on at the schools/educations that i have been studying over time. Do you guys have any advice for me, or tried something similar

              Good Sunday
              Join a Health club and take aerobic Classes with the females . My brother one time broke with his girlfriend he was depressed. I told him join a gym he did and he was banging like 5 different girls from his aerobics classes

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              • #8
                Originally posted by Moller View Post
                I can sometimes see some lookups, around people with problems and it seems that there are good answers, so I also try as anonymous to get your input

                I live in small city with 100K inhabitants in Denmark and have always lived here, I also have my entire social network etc here. My family is not close to me at all, and I only see them at christmas and birthdays. I spend almost all my time going to school, sitting at home and playing or training, and a couple of times a month I see my friends, it used to be nearly everyday, but the last year that have changed, my friends have either started to get girlfriends and sitting there at home, or simply not going out on weekends. Since I am a really social person and, as I said, has no family really, friends have always been the most important to me, I left my girlfriend 6 months ago. And sadly, i must admit that my situation is making me depressed, and I am tired of being a 24 years old, and spend my weekends at home on the couch, like my weekdays. I know some love this, and thats great, but i love being social.

                I finish my 2 year business academy education next year, and I have therefore strongly considered taking the PBA (1.5 years extra so it is a full bachelor degree) in Copenhagen ( the capital with 1+ million people ) or wait for it and take the master degree in Copenhagen, my best friend lives over there and he loves it. I feel that i am good at getting new social relationships, have always been well-liked on at the schools/educations that i have been studying over time. Do you guys have any advice for me, or tried something similar

                Good Sunday
                Okok ohhhh Kay...

                My wife told me cute azz boys hit on her in Denmark...
                That’s you....
                I like giving mo ****ers a reason to live..


                Move.... come here nnow..... you pretty azz puto types...

                Mo ****ers like you.... make ugly men like me look good...

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                • #9
                  That's what happens when you haven't experienced true pain yet.

                  Once you experience true pain, you'll give your arm and a nutsack for a boring life.

                  Be grateful being bored is the biggest problem you have in life.

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by Moller View Post
                    I can sometimes see some lookups, around people with problems and it seems that there are good answers, so I also try as anonymous to get your input

                    I live in small city with 100K inhabitants in Denmark and have always lived here, I also have my entire social network etc here. My family is not close to me at all, and I only see them at christmas and birthdays. I spend almost all my time going to school, sitting at home and playing or training, and a couple of times a month I see my friends, it used to be nearly everyday, but the last year that have changed, my friends have either started to get girlfriends and sitting there at home, or simply not going out on weekends. Since I am a really social person and, as I said, has no family really, friends have always been the most important to me, I left my girlfriend 6 months ago. And sadly, i must admit that my situation is making me depressed, and I am tired of being a 24 years old, and spend my weekends at home on the couch, like my weekdays. I know some love this, and thats great, but i love being social.

                    I finish my 2 year business academy education next year, and I have therefore strongly considered taking the PBA (1.5 years extra so it is a full bachelor degree) in Copenhagen ( the capital with 1+ million people ) or wait for it and take the master degree in Copenhagen, my best friend lives over there and he loves it. I feel that i am good at getting new social relationships, have always been well-liked on at the schools/educations that i have been studying over time. Do you guys have any advice for me, or tried something similar

                    Good Sunday
                    Are you Danish or just an American living there? Play football (soccer) with randoms @ the park to make new friends + socialize at the same time.

                    If you dont like futbol get a PS4 and XBOX also build a PC to make friends online
                    & to get your mind off negative crap
                    Last edited by Mr.365; 05-26-2019, 07:07 PM.

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