Own mother reported me to the police when her boyfriend threatend to hit me....

[AlexKid]

....I tried to organize a time and place with him for him to do that (hit me) and they both called the police and lied to the police which got me put in a cell for the entire day, when I hadnt even broken the law he did.

I since stopped speaking to her and have tried to ignore her for a year or 2

Since then my mum has been trying to emotionally manipulate me to get me back in her life with Christmas cards etc despite me asking her not to get them for me.

Shes supposed to be making it up to me and shes making it worse by not respecting my wishes.

If it was anyone else it cut them form my life forever. But dont want to because its my mum.

What boundaries can I set to ensure she makes a big sacrifice in order to make up for her scumbag move?

What hoops can I make her jump through first?




I thought about saying if you want me back in your life then dump the boyfriend , that was perfect, the only problem is he supports her financially, has just bought her a new house and is helping support my grandma




So now I dont know what hoop to make her jump through to prove that she is sorry and to punish her for being a scumbag.



Also she keeps trying to emotionally manipulate me in the time being, shes supposed to be making it up to me but shes making it worse but not even respecting me as a human being by emotionally trying to control me for what she wants.

[Zaroku]

....I tried to organize a time and place with him for him to do that (hit me) and they both called the police and lied to the police which got me put in a cell for the entire day, when I hadnt even broken the law he did.

I since stopped speaking to her and have tried to ignore her for a year or 2

Since then my mum has been trying to emotionally manipulate me to get me back in her life with Christmas cards etc despite me asking her not to get them for me.

Shes supposed to be making it up to me and shes making it worse by not respecting my wishes.

If it was anyone else it cut them form my life forever. But dont want to because its my mum.

What boundaries can I set to ensure she makes a big sacrifice in order to make up for her scumbag move?

What hoops can I make her jump through first?




I thought about saying if you want me back in your life then dump the boyfriend , that was perfect, the only problem is he supports her financially, has just bought her a new house and is helping support my grandma




So now I dont know what hoop to make her jump through to prove that she is sorry and to punish her for being a scumbag.



Also she keeps trying to emotionally manipulate me in the time being, shes supposed to be making it up to me but shes making it worse but not even respecting me as a human being by emotionally trying to control me for what she wants.

Move out of her house. Take control, pay all your own bills, rent, food, Internet, cell phone, don't accept crap from her. Assert yourself by being financially independent. Then don't tell her anything for a year or two, while you work your azz off and become Alrxman!

You got this Alexkid, soon to be AlexMan! Or fly to Tokyo and I will help you find a job!! Hopefully you do have skills?

[AlexKid]

Move out of her house. Take control, pay all your own bills, rent, food, Internet, cell phone, don't accept crap from her. Assert yourself by being financially independent. Then don't tell her anything for a year or two, while you work your azz off and become Alrxman!

You got this Alexkid, soon to be AlexMan! Or fly to Tokyo and I will help you find a job!! Hopefully you do have skills?

Im already out of the house as I think you know

[Zaroku]

Im already out of the house as I think you know

Women make bad choices, so do men. It is ****ing frustrating to see it. My sister was with this fool, he used to cheat on her, so she returned the favor. He beat her, I broke his forearm with a screw together pool stick. Cops cuffed me, until they found out that he had just beat up my sister. They cut me a break, told me to call them next time. I agreed, but would never do that.

She divorced him, and he went to prison for killing a guy.
Got out, moved to Fresno and became famous.

http://abc30.com/news/fresno-pd-bank...n-jail/884855/
He is probably gone for good this time. I should have killed him when I had a chance.

Crazy right?

[DARKSEID]

....I tried to organize a time and place with him for him to do that (hit me) and they both called the police and lied to the police which got me put in a cell for the entire day, when I hadnt even broken the law he did.

I since stopped speaking to her and have tried to ignore her for a year or 2

Since then my mum has been trying to emotionally manipulate me to get me back in her life with Christmas cards etc despite me asking her not to get them for me.

Shes supposed to be making it up to me and shes making it worse by not respecting my wishes.

If it was anyone else it cut them form my life forever. But dont want to because its my mum.

What boundaries can I set to ensure she makes a big sacrifice in order to make up for her scumbag move?

What hoops can I make her jump through first?




I thought about saying if you want me back in your life then dump the boyfriend , that was perfect, the only problem is he supports her financially, has just bought her a new house and is helping support my grandma




So now I dont know what hoop to make her jump through to prove that she is sorry and to punish her for being a scumbag.



Also she keeps trying to emotionally manipulate me in the time being, shes supposed to be making it up to me but shes making it worse but not even respecting me as a human being by emotionally trying to control me for what she wants.

How old are you? How do you get your income? I think at this point you should just let your mom have her own life and focus on your own. If she wants to be with this guy it's her decision.

No matter how bad you think he is, it's your mom's choice who she wants to be with.

Also I would consult a lawyer if you have a criminal record. Did you go to court for your arrest? Is there still a pending trial?

[Zaroku]

How old are you? How do you get your income? I think at this point you should just let your mom have her own life and focus on your own. If she wants to be with this guy it's her decision.

No matter how bad you think he is, it's your mom's choice who she wants to be with.

Also I would consult a lawyer if you have a criminal record. Did you go to court for your arrest? Is there still a pending trial?

It took me decades of dealing with sister's bf/husbands to get this point. It frustrates me to no end, I am the fix it brother. Even when my sisters don't want it fixed. So I became the "don't let Zaroku know!" My craziness made people lie to me... I caused people to lie to me.

My fault!

[Robbie Barrett]

Tell her you want an apology and her admittance of guilt in front of the rest of the family.

[DARKSEID]

My mom was clingy as **** lol, she put a surveillance program on my computer, she would hack into my phone, she would use her master key and look through all my stuff.

I know all this because she found out I was visiting backpages escort websites, she knew I was doing drugs through my phone and she found my unlicensed gun in my closet. It was terrible I felt like a prisoner with no privacy.

I couldn't wait to leave that hellhole and be on my own. I got kicked out cuz we had a fight when I was 18 and that was when I was unleashed on the world. I still kept the car and the college fund she gave me though lol

I think your mom falsely charging you is a sign it's time to leave the nest bruh

[betmen]

is your mum hot?

do you feel jealousy toward your mum's boyfriend??

did you feel you want to be inside your mom's vagina again???

[Zaroku]

is your mum hot?

do you feel jealousy toward your mum's boyfriend??

did you feel you want to be inside your mom's vagina again???

I didn't want to take Alexkid there.

But, many women/men are not happy unless they are mistreated.

I get poon because there are so many bad father's out there. I'm lovin it!