I got my girlfriend pregnant when I was 19 and she was 18. I had zero sex-ed in school outside of a HILARIOUS abstinence-only class we had in high school. You know what they told us? Theres still a chance you could get pregnant and STDs if you use a condom, so you may as well not bother! Safe sex was a lie they told us, and our only hope was to wait until marriage.
Even with the internet, I really didn't know **** about safe sex, stds, ect. Thank GOD my girlfriends Mom was like "NOPE. Paul, get $250 together by next Friday. There is no discussion here. If you really love each other, you can wait until you're ready to have kids."
Not a day goes by that I am not thankful for what her Mom, Planned Parenthood, and Rowe vs Wade.
Some people might ask "Don't you feel bad knowing that a child could have existed and would be like 10 years old now?" My answer would be No, Are you ******ed? A sperm is alive. Every time you bust in your girl while wearing a condom or she's on the pill, that's a potential child that you have prevented from existing.
Even with the internet, I really didn't know **** about safe sex, stds, ect. Thank GOD my girlfriends Mom was like "NOPE. Paul, get $250 together by next Friday. There is no discussion here. If you really love each other, you can wait until you're ready to have kids."
Not a day goes by that I am not thankful for what her Mom, Planned Parenthood, and Rowe vs Wade.
Some people might ask "Don't you feel bad knowing that a child could have existed and would be like 10 years old now?" My answer would be No, Are you ******ed? A sperm is alive. Every time you bust in your girl while wearing a condom or she's on the pill, that's a potential child that you have prevented from existing.
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