I found that cheating wh*re out haha!

[squealpiggy]

Sometimes we post stuff on this forum to gauge opinion even though it's not necessarily the truth. While this is an anonymous account I still value BS as a kind of internet home where there exists a perception of me, so revealing the truth isn't always the best idea.

The truth about my last relationship is this - I didn't cheat on her. I put myself in her position on BS so I could judge what the heat would be like. She was the one doing the dirty on me, I was just too embarrassed to be a guy that was cheated on - never thought it would happen to be honest.

Well, here is the bombshell. I always suspected that she was cheating for at least 10 months of our 18 month relationship (was just a feeling I got like something didn't add up). However I never had any proof until a few months ago when we went on holiday. She logged onto her g-mail account on my phone and forgot to log out. When I went to use the phone to check our hotel bill, I opened the top booking.com email and assumed it was for the hotel we was staying at abroad. Wrong. It was for a hotel in England the night before we left which was strange because I didn't book it. I looked at the other e-mails and realised I was on her account and she forgot to log out.

Anyway I confronted her about it, and she claimed she booked it for her brother and his girlfriend. She sounded convincing but I didn't believe her. I ended it on the plane home. We met a few more times to talk, but I just couldn't trust her any more. I was heartbroken because there was still a part of me that thought she was telling the truth and I was just paranoid. I was torn for months but we kept talking and she said I was just being stupid and should trust her.

I was just coming round to the notion of trusting her again, when I was moving folders from my phone to my laptop to have it repaired. I noticed a couple of txt files that I hadn't even realised I had on my phone, so I opened them to see what they were. Turns out one was a page containing all her emails and logon details for various sites including Facebook. Now after hours upon hours of deliberating what to do, I decided to log onto her Facebook. I know it's morally wrong but I had to know, and I think the evidence I had previously, justified the act.

Simply put, she had been seeing this guy since last August to when we split up and even after. He was also the guy she went to that hotel with. But that's not all, turns out she had a couple of other guys on the go as well.

They all seem to think she is in love with her, and they all knew about me, but none knew about the others, and I didn't know about any lol.

I felt slightly sick, but also relieved that I now know the truth and I can move on without thinking what ifs, and did I make a mistake?

Now the question is lads - I have her Facebook, I know the Facebook's off all her secret guys...how do I wreak revenge? There's something masterful in this haha!

Maybe she found a man who doesn't refer to women as "whores".

[Xyei]

Maybe she found a man who doesn't refer to women as "whores".

You don't think a woman who cheats ought to be referred to as a whore?

[squealpiggy]

You don't think a woman who cheats ought to be referred to as a whore?

Only if you're a cuckold!

[DeadLikeMe]

A good way for revenge that isn't really bad is to sign someone up for a ton of mailing lists. If they have a 'good' email that they use for important stuff, sign them up for like every fast food place, all military branches, all delivery pizza places, all sports leagues, etc...the junk emails from them will make a smartphone go off constantly.

[SkillspayBills]

Unless you where your underwear on the outside and have a cape you use to fly the skies with I suggest you just let it go. Cut her out of your life again and use this as a lesson learned.

[SkillspayBills]

Once, this girl I was seeing as a teenager, was cheating on her boyfriend with me but I didn't know about him. She would always tell me he's just a close friend. I was really dumb and gullible at the time, and I was young, so I believed her. I really trusted people back then, like to the point where any girl can play me. I'm like the complete opposite now and can tell bullsh-t from a girl, from a mile away.

Anyway, this is about getting revenge. This girl had sent me lots of pictures of her, nude, bikini, with clothes on. When I found out she had a bf, we broke up and I was angry at her. But instead of retaliating, I just deleted all of her pictures. I could have just spread the pics around, but that is a sign of weakness to me. Girls tend to send me nude pics of themselves, whether it's their boobs, or p-ussy. But when we're done, no matter how it ends up, I delete the pictures.

What i'm saying is to move on. Retaliate by never talking to her again and just forget you even know her. If you see her in the streets just keep walking.

This is why me and you are twins. I do the same ****. I've never been spiteful when it comes to females. I could have made many a girl famous online for their bull**** but I just delete pics and videos instead of putting them out there just to embarass them. Finding someone who treats you better than a lying cheating ***** is always the best revenge.

[Frogs!]

She's tried txting and calling a few times since we spoke earlier today, but I've not answered until just now. Took the high-road and I'm not going to look back.

Sent her a final txt saying -

Look, you had your own reasons for what you did, but you didn't want to talk about them then, and I don't want to talk about them now. I looked you in the eyes dozens of times and asked you if there was something you wanted to tell me and you said no every time. And when I found that receipt you blatantly lied to my face. I'm happy I know the truth now because I can move on with my life without regrets. I hope you can do the same.

All the best.

love this post.


all that's left is for you to pm me her naked pics.

don't you worry, i'm not spreading them around, just sentence her pics to my own version of revenge.

:wank:

[Mike Tyson77]

just go to a different strip club and buy a new one

[BetterCallSaul]

Only if you're a cuckold!

I don't refer to women as whores I referred to one woman as a whore. Let's hope you never have to find out that your wife or girlfriend is a whore. I'd rather her not be a whore to be honest. If she broke up with me before she engaged in a year long secret affair I'd have nothing but kind thoughts about her. But no, she acted like a whore.

[The Noose]

I don't refer to women as whores I referred to one woman as a whore. Let's hope you never have to find out that your wife or girlfriend is a whore. I'd rather her not be a whore to be honest. If she broke up with me before she engaged in a year long secret affair I'd have nothing but kind thoughts about her. But no, she acted like a whore.

She acted like a lying slut.
Not a whore. Whores get paid. :boobies: