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i understand what you have been going through htown. 10 years is a long time together. i believe that both of u have grown up together and have shared a lot of precious moments together. relationships like this are unique for a couple who hasn't got married. it's something that is hard to accomplish. so i congratulate u for being able to take care of the relationship and ur girl for that span of time. u did well!
as for the break up. things wouldn't be easy. there are relationships that are easy to forget but there are ones that is hard to get over with. especially with what u guys had. it would be hard to compare and to replace. both of u have shared a special bond that each one of u would always remember. so i think that this would be hard to get over with.
i'm sure that sooner or later u both would end up still wanting each other to get back together. but hey it's u guys who would have that feeling not anyone else. but if you won't be back together it's either her or u who wouldn't be able to get over right away.
as for now the best thing to do is stay positive. keep urself around with good people but REMEMBER this, they won't be there for u for a long time. a month is the only acceptable time span that they would be hanging out with u through your troubles but believe me later on they'd get irritated. try not to bad mouth her and stay away from hearing any comments from her or knowing what she does while you're separated. that shiet would destroy u.
advices are easier said than done. believe me on that. when i got separated it took me 2 fawking years to be ok. there will be times when u think ur over her but then later on u'd be back to square one and hoping things will be alright. the best thing to do is keep urself busy. it's the only way that can really help u not think about the problem. fawking some random chick, drinking and hanging out with ur buddies won't do. because at the end of the day it's still u who's gonna go home alone and sleep in the bed where both of u used to sleep when u were still a couple.
there's a lot of steps that ur gonna have to go through. i wish i could help u more but as for now that's the first thing you have to do first. i do hope that ur one of the strong ones that would be able to get over this problem.
be strong and don't show her any weakness. goodluck!
as for the break up. things wouldn't be easy. there are relationships that are easy to forget but there are ones that is hard to get over with. especially with what u guys had. it would be hard to compare and to replace. both of u have shared a special bond that each one of u would always remember. so i think that this would be hard to get over with.
i'm sure that sooner or later u both would end up still wanting each other to get back together. but hey it's u guys who would have that feeling not anyone else. but if you won't be back together it's either her or u who wouldn't be able to get over right away.
as for now the best thing to do is stay positive. keep urself around with good people but REMEMBER this, they won't be there for u for a long time. a month is the only acceptable time span that they would be hanging out with u through your troubles but believe me later on they'd get irritated. try not to bad mouth her and stay away from hearing any comments from her or knowing what she does while you're separated. that shiet would destroy u.
advices are easier said than done. believe me on that. when i got separated it took me 2 fawking years to be ok. there will be times when u think ur over her but then later on u'd be back to square one and hoping things will be alright. the best thing to do is keep urself busy. it's the only way that can really help u not think about the problem. fawking some random chick, drinking and hanging out with ur buddies won't do. because at the end of the day it's still u who's gonna go home alone and sleep in the bed where both of u used to sleep when u were still a couple.
there's a lot of steps that ur gonna have to go through. i wish i could help u more but as for now that's the first thing you have to do first. i do hope that ur one of the strong ones that would be able to get over this problem.
be strong and don't show her any weakness. goodluck!
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