I was at the bar the other night...
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Hey man I know a lot of dudes got jokes in here but I'm gonna actually post a serious response to this thread.and I met this girl who I'm pretty in to. We talked a lot about politics, religion, future ambitions, really everything you would need to get to know someone.
My main problem is that she is the same age that Fernando Vargas was when he won his first world title.
The age gap just seems too much.
Can anyone help me?
First.....I noticed you said the chick is 21. Now to me that is a red flag because most girls in that range 18-23 are full of **** and on that attention whore tip. I'm kinda kickin common knowledge when I say this....but a majority of girls in that range are just trying to get as much male attention as possible....so I would take what they say and how they act with a grain of salt.
Now don't get me wrong, I have ran into some girls in that range that were serious, but those are so far and between that trying to filter them out from the others that are on some bull**** is kind of a hassle.
Second, I honestly think you are moving way too fast. Now there are some upscaled bars were classy chicks go and maybe you met her at one of those places, but again the chances of her fitting that category is basically slim to none. Personally I would have tried to smash first and ask question later....but hey that is just me.
With that said, my suggestion to you is this; I would still try to talk her but take some time trying to see where this girls head is at. You can tell where a person's mind is at by the type of conversations they bring up...so slow it down a bit a try feeling this girl out before you start to take her serious.
Also, unless you are married or in a serious relationship, you should be trying to talk to multiple chicks. No man should ever put his eggs in one basket, and that is the mistake most of my homeboys make......putting too much energy in one girl, only to find out how much time they wasted or the opportunities they could have had with other girls, when **** goes sour with the girl they thought was the one for them.Last edited by Khalid X; 09-20-2010, 02:25 PM.Comment
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no dirty talk? you hav to provoke her.. trust me
get her tiger!!!
dont be scared, take a tune up-date with a girl whos on your nuts to boost your confidence than KTFO your girl.
most of my gf were a half year older than me... the younger ones just werent ready for some reason lolComment

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