[Lomasexual]

It's hard, because they are speaking from ignorance - and they are unaware of how ignorant they are, so they speak loudly, assertively and rudely (at least some do).
I've done a lot of grappling and throws, so it is easy for me to see what is happening. A lot of people without that experience might not be able to see what is happening right in front of their eyes. Oh well, what can you do?