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Old 03-13-2019, 09:02 AM #1
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Talking Men Situations #1. What if you found out your kids weren't yours at an young age ?

I pray this never happened to anyone of you guys. My wife likes alot of drama shows. Maury , Steve, Paternal Court and Cheaters ( We both like cheaters ).

This seems to happen more so now a days and happened behind closed doors back in the day alot. You know that down south story your cousin or best friend is really your brother type sht.

If you found out your 4 year old kid is not yours would you say or leave ? You dropped everything in your life for this kid, you may or not be on child support ( some states will keep you on child support). You bonded with him, you live with the mother and the kid as a family , you are working a job you hate. Her name is also on everything ( apartment, house, car, etc) .



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Old 03-13-2019, 09:12 AM #2
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Me personally would flat out leave. I know some people would call me a douch.
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Old 03-13-2019, 09:28 AM #3
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leave the woman for sure. be there for the kid in a supportive male role model sort of way, to whatever extent possible depending on how the woman handled things from that point on.

and you are not a douche for leaving, she is a douche for being a complete sack of garbage. then using her own child, a child she lied about being yours. to guilt trip you into making her life easier. if she cared about the kid she wouldn't have done any of that **** in the first place.

i would be there for the kid especially once it figures out his or her mom is an *******. try to steer them away from her influence if they gravitate in that direction to begin with, but not in the role of a father. since that wouldn't be my role to begin with.
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Old 03-13-2019, 09:41 AM #4
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ill be happy to find out so soon. 4 years aint sht. i can unbond myself from the kid.
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Old 03-13-2019, 09:45 AM #5
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I would leave too, that's high treason, not only the cheating but then lying about it, there can't be any trust after that
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i would drop the h0e, as for the kid, i'll still support and raise the kid like it's mine. a 4 year old baby, that's a lot of bonding time you've spent with the kid already. i dont think i can just get up and leave after 4 years of changing diapers, etc.
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Me personally would flat out leave. I know some people would call me a douch.
i would leave the girl, of course! as for the kid. i'll still continue to support the kid for as long as i can or is allowed too.
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ill be happy to find out so soon. 4 years aint sht. i can unbond myself from the kid.
4 years might not seem much if you're just out there fvvcking around, having fun, etc. but 4 years stuck with a baby from birth, changing diapers, feeding, all the late nights, waking up early mornings, etc. that 4 year will seem a lot longer! you would have built a bond with the kid by now if you're not a fvvvcked up parent. 4 years with a baby is a long time if you really think about it.
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Me personally would flat out leave. I know some people would call me a douch.
You wouldnt be a douche for leaving. Its a very tough decision. Its hard to answer though, I myself am cold hearted when it comes to women but Im a softie for kids.

The only problem I see with a man sticking around in that situation is he'd put a damper on his single life. I spent a few years as a single dad and although I got mine and some, its hard to be serious with someone when you got kids and a baby mama. A majority of modern women dont want that drama either. & I can honestly say its harder for a single dad to find some1 than a single mom.
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I would shoot the ***** and raise the kid.
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