What are things a man can do to be more confident?

[AlexKid]

Head butt a goat till you win

[GGG Gloveking]

Head butt a goat till you win

He'll never win.

Why do you think they call him the goat?

[richardt]

This is more from the book I wrote. Again, I have to remain incognito here but you have everything here and from the original information on the thread about success with women to fully succeed.

Confidence begets success begets confidence. Meaning build yourself up a brick at a time by discovering your strengths and discovering hidden talents and abilities and creating new ones.

NEW SKILLS:
Learn to cook gourmet, take a class in psychology so that you can learn more about yourself, visit interesting places, learn to paint, draw, write, play an instrument, dance class, exercise, etc. Developing yourself in a few important ways will make you more confident which makes you more successful which then builds your confidence further which is a breakdown of the first sentence I wrote.

If we are talking towards women in particular, here you go:

DRESS FOR SUCCESS:
Women LOVE a sharp-dressed man! Remember the song, "Every Girl's Crazy bout a Sharp-dressed Man"? Women FLOCK to well dressed men! Buy some new clothes and get a new hairstyle at a higher end hairstylist. Have your mother or sister or their female friends advise you on what to wear and go shopping with them and be open. Dont forget a good cologne!

NEW SKILLS (CONTINUED):
Develop your skills! Women love a man who can cook and if you cook a nice gourmet meal after studying gourmet food, this will help your confidence because women love talking food and having someone cook for them a nice meal and you'll connect. This is part confidence because you are gaining a new skill. And the side effect is when you gain new skills, sub consciously you start caring more about yourself and become proud of your changes and that is an IRON-CLAD immovable confidence when you really start feeling confident as a person and that rubs off on others in public.

BODY LANGUAGE:
Here is the big one! Take a body language class or watch a youtube video or buy a book on the subject because when you correct bad posture or behavior, people will be more drawn to you and your confidence will come from learning successful body language techniques that will ultimately become second nature to you. After some time, you wont need to remember to follow steps because mastering body language will last you a lifetime and not have to refer back to some tutorial, it will be ingrained in you. Small successes build into a solid self-esteem. The reason I say body language will become second nature is that it is like talking....you never have to go learn how to talk again later in life, or learn how to pick something up, write something down, it is ingrained. Body language is the same learning method that stays with you for life through repetitiveness.

CONFIDENCE THROUGH FAILURE:
Yes, this is true! Read on!
My friend came to me once and he sounded enthusiastic after being rejected by a woman and that puzzled me quite a bit. You know what he said? He said he had been rejected 3 times in a row. I said so how are you so positive??? He said because the law of averages told him that he is about to meet someone that he will connect with! That is true...you roll the dice enough times and....well you know the rest, you will win. A month later he met a lady that would become his wife and after many years, they are still together.

REMEMBER - when things seem bleak for a period of time, success is just around the corner...that is the law of averages at work! It may take some time! But confidence that it will come is what you need based on simple math. People who are at their lowest point know there is only one way to go and that is up because they have learned some life experiences and know how to climb out of a hole and stay out.

[DARKSEID]

You could try meth. Works pretty well for me.

[285Kid]

Alpha's Confidence Boosters

1. Eliminate negative people from your life - they are cancerous. They are energy vampires. You may need to find a new job or relationship. It may suck short-term but will boost your confidence long-term.

2. Compliment others - getting compliment feels incredible! It also feels incredible giving them and helps develop your people skills at the same time.

3. Do something good about your body every day - it doesn't matter how much or how little. Just make a conscious effort, and the result will be a direct impact on how you feel about yourself.

4. Develop your brain -- feed your brain knowledge and stimulate it. Alpha doesn't like to read (or have time) so he's been crazy hooked on Audible | An Amazon Company Alpha recommends Daniel Pink's "A Whole New Mind." The book talks about the importance of developing creative thinking, which creative thinkers will end up ruling the world. Alpha uses Audible in the car and while doing cardio. Get your free trial and audio book today.

5. Help someone every day! - You will feel amazing after doing something nice for someone. It's a rush of endorphins and a self-esteem 'shot in the ass'.

[Willy Wanker]

All sorts of ways

Do you want the high tech cheating way or the manly way?


The manly way = a change in attitude start talking to yourself in a harsher/harder manor and facing fears head on over and over again ROUTINELY as a habit till you conquer them to a high degree

Go through pain lots of pain physical and emotional and scary moments difficult moments and learn from them

Learn to fight in MMA etc





The low risk high tech way: Hypnosis, use medication to undo poor mental self talk, cbt, meditation,, learn about self esteem, self acceptance, being kind to yourself, learn about the poor idea of comparing yourself to others and seeking validation etc

Alexkid is dropping knowledge on you punchr. Screenshot this post and read it everyday after you wake up and before you jack off in the morning before work.

[DARKSEID]

Alexkid is dropping knowledge on you punchr. Screenshot this post and read it everyday after you wake up and before you jack off in the morning before work.

Taking alexkid's advice on how to be more manly is like tAking advice from Hitler on how to be more tolerant of Jews.

[Money Shot]

Strength conditioning and confidence that you can handle yourself in a fight by working a bag daily is not the same as general confidence but it can help overall.

[Shaolin Sword]

Taking alexkid's advice on how to be more manly is like tAking advice from Hitler on how to be more tolerant of Jews.

Or taking advice from you when it comes to dealing with addiction .

[Willy Wanker]

Taking alexkid's advice on how to be more manly is like tAking advice from Hitler on how to be more tolerant of Jews.

My boy punchr needs all the help he can get. Even Alexkid felt the need to help him.