Full question: In what ways do you communicate with women that are different than the ways you communicate with other dudes?
List the ways.
Because obviously, as a guy, you can't just talk to a woman the way you talk to a man. I learned that the hard way. Maybe the differences aren't major. Maybe they are subtle. What are these subtleties? Please describe them.
Do you have to be cocky/confident?
I'm going back to the drawing board because what I'm doing now isn't working.
Should I smile more? Smiling at women is one of the things I was contemplating trying out, because one time I accidentally smiled at this girl and she started really feeling me. She couldn't hide her interest in me. But I'm gun-shy about smiling at females because, in the past, my smile has been rejected.
Bottom line is I'm confused about girls. I was told at a young age that they all girls want is to be taken care of and for you to be there for them but if you do that then you're clingy which repels them. I'm torn over this. I don't know what the fuck to do lol.
This song describes how I feel about females right now.
[Nick:] Ah
[A.J:]
So empty, can't feel no more,
As I'm left with my tears on the floor
I wait for my heart to mend,
But you keep tearing a hole
[Brian:]
Inside, I'm so lost,
In the middle of my heart
It's a battlefield of love,
I've been fighting far too long
[Brian:] And now I'm shattered,
[Nick:] (From you chipping my heart, kept taking it till it broke)
[Brian:] Oh how it hurts
[Nick:] Felt it slip from your hand, hit the ground and now it's shattered)
[Brian:] I'm so shattered
[Nick, Howie:] (Can't believe you left me, I'm so shattered)
[Brian:] So shattered
[Nick, Howie:] (Can't believe, you left me, ah)
[Brian:] So shattered
[Nick, Howie:] Can't believe, you left me, I'm so shattered
[Brian:] I'm shattered, cut from with-inside, oh
[Nick:]
What am I still here for,
Could it be that I'm just waiting
Hoping you'd rescue me,
And put the pieces together again
[Howie:]
Inside, I'm so lost,
In the middle of my heart
It's a battlefield of love,
I've been fighting far too long
[Brian:] And now I'm shattered
[Howie:] Oh
[Nick:] From you chipping my heart, kept taking it till it broke
[Brian:] Oh how it hurts
[Nick:] Felt it slip from your hand, hit the ground and now it's shattered
[Brian:] I'm so shattered
[Nick, Howie:] Can't believe you left me, I'm so shattered
[Brian:] So shattered
[Nick, Howie:] Can't believe, you left me, ah
[Brian:] So shattered
[Nick, Howie:] Can't believe, you left me, I'm so shattered
[Brian:] I'm shattered, cut from with-inside, oh
[Nick:]
Tell me what you're really here for,
If you never really loved me
I gave my all but it still wasn't enough
'Cause all you had to say was that you ain't
Looking for commitment
Instead of telling me what I wanted to hear, oh-ho
[Howie:]
You took my emotions
And scattered them on the ground
So hard to just pick up,
And move on with life, again
[Brian:] And now I'm shattered
[A.J.:] Oh
[Nick:] From you chipping my heart, kept taking it till it broke
[Brian:] Oh how it hurts
[Nick:] Felt it slip from your hand, hit the ground and now it's shattered
[Brian:] I'm so shattered
[Nick, Howie:] Can't believe you left me, I'm so shattered
[Brian:] So shattered
[Nick, Howie:] Can't believe, you left me, ah
[Brian:] So shattered
[Nick, Howie:] Can't believe, you left me, I'm so shattered
[Brian:] I'm shattered, cut from with-inside
[A.J.:] So shattered
[Brian:] Oh yes, I can't believe, you left me, so shattered
List the ways.
Because obviously, as a guy, you can't just talk to a woman the way you talk to a man. I learned that the hard way. Maybe the differences aren't major. Maybe they are subtle. What are these subtleties? Please describe them.
Do you have to be cocky/confident?
I'm going back to the drawing board because what I'm doing now isn't working.
Should I smile more? Smiling at women is one of the things I was contemplating trying out, because one time I accidentally smiled at this girl and she started really feeling me. She couldn't hide her interest in me. But I'm gun-shy about smiling at females because, in the past, my smile has been rejected.
Bottom line is I'm confused about girls. I was told at a young age that they all girls want is to be taken care of and for you to be there for them but if you do that then you're clingy which repels them. I'm torn over this. I don't know what the fuck to do lol.
This song describes how I feel about females right now.
[Nick:] Ah
[A.J:]
So empty, can't feel no more,
As I'm left with my tears on the floor
I wait for my heart to mend,
But you keep tearing a hole
[Brian:]
Inside, I'm so lost,
In the middle of my heart
It's a battlefield of love,
I've been fighting far too long
[Brian:] And now I'm shattered,
[Nick:] (From you chipping my heart, kept taking it till it broke)
[Brian:] Oh how it hurts
[Nick:] Felt it slip from your hand, hit the ground and now it's shattered)
[Brian:] I'm so shattered
[Nick, Howie:] (Can't believe you left me, I'm so shattered)
[Brian:] So shattered
[Nick, Howie:] (Can't believe, you left me, ah)
[Brian:] So shattered
[Nick, Howie:] Can't believe, you left me, I'm so shattered
[Brian:] I'm shattered, cut from with-inside, oh
[Nick:]
What am I still here for,
Could it be that I'm just waiting
Hoping you'd rescue me,
And put the pieces together again
[Howie:]
Inside, I'm so lost,
In the middle of my heart
It's a battlefield of love,
I've been fighting far too long
[Brian:] And now I'm shattered
[Howie:] Oh
[Nick:] From you chipping my heart, kept taking it till it broke
[Brian:] Oh how it hurts
[Nick:] Felt it slip from your hand, hit the ground and now it's shattered
[Brian:] I'm so shattered
[Nick, Howie:] Can't believe you left me, I'm so shattered
[Brian:] So shattered
[Nick, Howie:] Can't believe, you left me, ah
[Brian:] So shattered
[Nick, Howie:] Can't believe, you left me, I'm so shattered
[Brian:] I'm shattered, cut from with-inside, oh
[Nick:]
Tell me what you're really here for,
If you never really loved me
I gave my all but it still wasn't enough
'Cause all you had to say was that you ain't
Looking for commitment
Instead of telling me what I wanted to hear, oh-ho
[Howie:]
You took my emotions
And scattered them on the ground
So hard to just pick up,
And move on with life, again
[Brian:] And now I'm shattered
[A.J.:] Oh
[Nick:] From you chipping my heart, kept taking it till it broke
[Brian:] Oh how it hurts
[Nick:] Felt it slip from your hand, hit the ground and now it's shattered
[Brian:] I'm so shattered
[Nick, Howie:] Can't believe you left me, I'm so shattered
[Brian:] So shattered
[Nick, Howie:] Can't believe, you left me, ah
[Brian:] So shattered
[Nick, Howie:] Can't believe, you left me, I'm so shattered
[Brian:] I'm shattered, cut from with-inside
[A.J.:] So shattered
[Brian:] Oh yes, I can't believe, you left me, so shattered
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