At some point, you have to make your girl more interesting.
Let's say she comes in with skills...she does oral like this, she rides like that and she hits these notes when you get balls deep...after a while, you'll get accustomed to this, that and these.
Now, the only ways for her to learn different techniques are from you, from ****, from her girlfriends (who probably helped her achieve her current skill set) or from other guys (who already helped her hone her skills if she came in with ability).
Since she's now YOUR girl, you don't want her learning from other guys, you might not care for what her girlfriends do for their dudes and you'd have to research the **** anyway with more girls so GUIDE her to being a girl that you'd want to be with forever.
As guys we tend to focus on the sex when the real problems are often elsewhere. She's really just not a challenge to you anymore. Being able to get that vagina whenever you want it as made you as ****y as the hot girls at the bar who think they can get whatever guy they want.
I would recommend taking 3-4 days off from having sex with her while doing things that turn her on (so she doesn't think you're not interested). Your aim should be to ramp the energy level between the two of you back up to when it was its highest. Back up to when you could look at her body, even after sex, and want more.
When things get around that level, start pushing her boundaries. Sexual and otherwise. I don't think that after only 3 years, you're maximizing your girl's potential while you're laying there bored with her.
I've had mine for 6 years and have her trying to keep up when we work out together, working on expressing herself, cleaning my place while I'm there not helping, waking up in the morning to cook breakfast when I have to go to work (and she doesn't), sexually taking her tongue to new places and she's ready to retry something that traumatized her a few years back...all off a change in my energy.
And those may be things that come naturally for other girls but I'm just saying your girl has more to her than you're probably using and you should make it your challenge to bring them out.
Let's say she comes in with skills...she does oral like this, she rides like that and she hits these notes when you get balls deep...after a while, you'll get accustomed to this, that and these.
Now, the only ways for her to learn different techniques are from you, from ****, from her girlfriends (who probably helped her achieve her current skill set) or from other guys (who already helped her hone her skills if she came in with ability).
Since she's now YOUR girl, you don't want her learning from other guys, you might not care for what her girlfriends do for their dudes and you'd have to research the **** anyway with more girls so GUIDE her to being a girl that you'd want to be with forever.
As guys we tend to focus on the sex when the real problems are often elsewhere. She's really just not a challenge to you anymore. Being able to get that vagina whenever you want it as made you as ****y as the hot girls at the bar who think they can get whatever guy they want.
I would recommend taking 3-4 days off from having sex with her while doing things that turn her on (so she doesn't think you're not interested). Your aim should be to ramp the energy level between the two of you back up to when it was its highest. Back up to when you could look at her body, even after sex, and want more.
When things get around that level, start pushing her boundaries. Sexual and otherwise. I don't think that after only 3 years, you're maximizing your girl's potential while you're laying there bored with her.
I've had mine for 6 years and have her trying to keep up when we work out together, working on expressing herself, cleaning my place while I'm there not helping, waking up in the morning to cook breakfast when I have to go to work (and she doesn't), sexually taking her tongue to new places and she's ready to retry something that traumatized her a few years back...all off a change in my energy.
And those may be things that come naturally for other girls but I'm just saying your girl has more to her than you're probably using and you should make it your challenge to bring them out.
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