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Sup BScene, long time poster but I just need some advice.
Here's the backstory.
I was getting to know someone who eventually became my GF but several months prior to that I had kissed a girl. As I was single when it happened I didn't mention it because it didn't go further than that. I live in a small town so of course word got around.
I know what you're gonna say. "Bro, you were single! F it!" Normally I'd do that but I'm gonna marry this girl so whatever, it'll pass.
Once together my now-GF found out about it when a mutual friend (let's call our friend Pam) told her. Pam has her own issues including a physically abusive partner that cheats on her. I would know because I grew up with the guy so I know how he is.
My gf would eventually get over it but she still talks to Pam everyday. Pam constantly tries to fit the girl I kissed into their conversations which reminds my GF about the incident and she comes home mad at me. Also Pam has said in the past that I am taking my GF away from her. Recently, she showed my GF a pic of the girl I kissed and again said that I'm taking her away and that she hates me.
I'm gonna confront her about it but wondering if anyone else has been in this position. She's obviously jealous and hating.
Here's the backstory.
I was getting to know someone who eventually became my GF but several months prior to that I had kissed a girl. As I was single when it happened I didn't mention it because it didn't go further than that. I live in a small town so of course word got around.
I know what you're gonna say. "Bro, you were single! F it!" Normally I'd do that but I'm gonna marry this girl so whatever, it'll pass.
Once together my now-GF found out about it when a mutual friend (let's call our friend Pam) told her. Pam has her own issues including a physically abusive partner that cheats on her. I would know because I grew up with the guy so I know how he is.
My gf would eventually get over it but she still talks to Pam everyday. Pam constantly tries to fit the girl I kissed into their conversations which reminds my GF about the incident and she comes home mad at me. Also Pam has said in the past that I am taking my GF away from her. Recently, she showed my GF a pic of the girl I kissed and again said that I'm taking her away and that she hates me.
I'm gonna confront her about it but wondering if anyone else has been in this position. She's obviously jealous and hating.
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