What do you guys think?

[Bossy]

So I just got off the phone with my friend and she was really upset.

She's a single mother, and works hard to support her family (solely) She just recently lost her job and has a little bit of money left to keep her going till she finds something else.


Now, I wanted to give you the back story not to make you feel sympathy but for you to understand this chick takes care of her little ones, pays bills etc ...

Anyway, she called me because this guy she casually knows through friends with called her and asked her to lend him money. He was insistent and she felt so badly she called me crying. He put her in the position of giving him money or feeding her family. Mind you, it wasn't a large sum, but recently unemployed, every single dollar makes a difference. I empathize, I have been in the same position before.

So what do you guys think, was the dude wrong for making her feel bad? He full well knows she lost her job as well. Is he wrong for even approaching her?

Vote on the poll!

[-jose-]

The kids come first fock him!

Why does she feel bad anyway?

[led]

You said he's a friend and it's not a huge money. I don't think there's nothing wrong with helping a friend.

[Bossy]

The kids come first fock him!

Why does she feel bad anyway?

He made her feel guilty I guess, that if she didn't help he would starve or some ****, she felt horrible about it.

[Bossy]

You said he's a friend and it's not a huge money. I don't think there's nothing wrong with helping a friend.

I use the word friend loosely, they haven't seen each other in about 6 years and only talk on FB occasionally.

[Money_May]

She should use these words next time she talks to him:



"Fuvk Off"


She shouldn't feel bad. Herself and her kids are número UNO!

[-jose-]

He made her feel guilty I guess, that if she didn't help he would starve or some ****, she felt horrible about it.

he's a piece of sh.it!

she calls that a friend plus she should be worrying about her kids and not crying over some bull**** fake friends tears









Is it you Bossy?



Cause I need some money yo!

[BornToLive]

This girl sounds like a ******.

Your kids come first, shouldn't even be thinking twice.

[Bossy]

She should use these words next time she talks to him:



"Fuvk Off"


She shouldn't feel bad. Herself and her kids are número UNO!

Agreed.

I have been in the same position with an acquaintance and it made me feel bad too.

[-jose-]

You said he's a friend and it's not a huge money. I don't think there's nothing wrong with helping a friend.

She lost her job, roadkill! and has kids to feed