10-12-2017, 07:04 PM
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10 Years Deep - long term relationships
10 Years deep
I was with my ex-gf for 10 years deep Met in 2006 and it ended in spring 2016. We split. Nothing like cheating or anything like that. It was a case of it hurt being together and some things just wouldnt have worked. That lady took my heart and has it. I have zero love left to give any other girl even though im in another relationship. Heartless. Not in an abusive way. I have no loving mechanism no more. She was my soul mate, that girl was my rib. The connection we had was so strong and so deep at one point. 10 years deep dudes. That shyt runs so deep. I have never been understood by a female as much. There was talk of marriage before we split. Things just fubarred. This song sums up my feelings and our relationship: "Weak When Ur Around" Oh, yeah, oh, yeah Oooooooooh Give it a rest, my love Let's take this slow We both need some room to breathe And if you know what's best for you and me you should leave, baby So weak when you're around me So weak when you're around me, yeah, oh Just because we're two little people in this big ole world I can make a living, baby You could be my girl I won't sell drugs no more I'll move you out the city I'm taking you with me, I'm taking you with me Cause if I ain't got you then I got nobody at all A cigarette between her lips She knows just how to work a man like me And she knows she gets exactly what she needs I'm so weak, baby So weak when you're around me So weak when you're around me Yeah, yeah Your parents say we're two little people in this big ole world But I could make a living Baby, you could be my girl I won't sell the coke no more I'll move you out the city I'm taking you with me, I'm taking you with me Cause if I don't got you then I got nobody I got nobody, I got nobody at all, yeah So weak, so weak Ooh, yeah-yeah-yeah-yeah Guys who have been in long term relationships, how do u deal with this shyt?> Shyt changes you as a person. Feel like an empty motherfuqqer incapable of love the i_am_a_champ flag is flying at half mast today :[ |
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10-12-2017, 07:13 PM
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Was today an anniversary or something? What made you feel like this today?
Longest relationship I had was 5 years. ***** stabbed me with a fork. |
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10-12-2017, 07:18 PM
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Most my relationships ended quick like i dated some bad jazz chicks who everyone wanted to get with so it was more so me luck and happy i was dating and smashing at all. the chick i'm pretty much shacked up with we been together off and on for like 10 years too. real talk the only reason i think we made it work was she was not jealous or high maintenance at all. also i was always working doing that GM gig and never home and always traveling for work. They say that sometimes makes relationships work out too when you guys aren't around each other always 24/7 |
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10-12-2017, 07:23 PM
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10-12-2017, 07:55 PM
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my honest suggestion is to shoot my friend hectari a PM.
he went through a similar incident so he may be able to relate. although his story is documented a little differently, she used to come back to his home (it was actually his apartment) after banging black dudes that she was cheating on him with, and then used to kiss him on the lips with BBC breath. he was so heartbroken when he finally found out. he flipped through her phone and had names of dozens upon dozens of black men who had sent her pics of their BBC's. there was even one pic of a BBC right in her mouth. |
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10-12-2017, 08:15 PM
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My longest relationships before I met my now wife was 10-12months..
In my wife I met a person who I could connect intellectually and emotionally.. we've been together for 10 and married for 6.. I totally understand when you say that no one understood you better because that's why my relationships didn't last that long as if it's like the other person is at a different wavelength altogether.. 10yrs is a long time bro.. you guys pretty much grew up together in terms of life and much of adulthood.. |
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10-13-2017, 09:50 AM
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10-13-2017, 10:13 AM
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Soulmate is some bs brother. If she's 1 in a million there are about 8000 of equally or better fitting "soulmates" for you. Go find the "soul mate" that's actually more fitting for you.
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10-18-2017, 01:10 PM
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you should probably get out of that relationship you're in now since you feel that way. and then just look at the positives in life and be happy with what you have and you will start to find your way again
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10-18-2017, 01:31 PM
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I will survive. |
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