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Old 04-16-2019, 05:09 AM #11
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Pursue cbt therapy (cognitive behavioural therapy, plenty of mental health charities offering support I've been through it and cbt helps mate
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Man I just tried what i wrote fcuk me it works sooooooo well its like being a man in 5 seconds flat Ive gone form all my life running and suffering to instantly experiencing what its like to be a masculine version of myself, man thats a big impact on my feels wow, ironically i want to cry like a woman

I tried so hard for so many years and never faced fear the right way and it hurt me so much and now I can do it

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Old 04-16-2019, 05:11 AM #12
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Not to interrupt your self-coaching, but get a job that requires you to interact with the public face-to-face. That helps a ton.

I'll sometimes go to karaoke with friends to keep my social game up and to practice keeping my nerves steady.

CBD (hemp with no thc) also reduces anxiety so consider it if you really need help.
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Old 04-16-2019, 05:17 AM #13
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Not to interrupt your self-coaching, but get a job that requires you to interact with the public face-to-face. That helps a ton.

I'll sometimes go to karaoke with friends to keep my social game up and to practice keeping my nerves steady.

CBD (hemp with no thc) also reduces anxiety so consider it if you really need help.
yea thats 1 simple thing i need to do to get the balance my life desperately needs get part time work where i can meet women thanks bro, simple solution dumb that ive waited so long to do it

But that never would have made me a man, facing your fear in VERY SPECIFIC DETAIL makes you a man

General fear facing doesn't work and I didnt know any better, even close fear facing doesn't work it has to be EXACTLY in DETAIL what you are scared of

PRECISELY EXACTLY what you are afraid of you have to pin it down, figure it out

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Old 04-16-2019, 05:20 AM #14
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Not to interrupt your self-coaching, but get a job that requires you to interact with the public face-to-face. That helps a ton.

I'll sometimes go to karaoke with friends to keep my social game up and to practice keeping my nerves steady.

CBD (hemp with no thc) also reduces anxiety so consider it if you really need help.
Great advice mate.
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Old 04-16-2019, 05:21 AM #15
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Man I just tried what i wrote fcuk me it works sooooooo well its like being a man in 5 seconds flat Ive gone form all my life running and suffering to instantly experiencing what its like to be a masculine version of myself, man thats a big impact on my feels wow, ironically i want to cry like a woman

I tried so hard for so many years and never faced fear the right way and it hurt me so much and now I can do it

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No worries mate, remember some days will be better then others during recovery but if your efforts consistent you will achieve what you need.
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Old 04-16-2019, 05:52 AM #16
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Old 04-16-2019, 06:06 AM #17
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Try moving out of your parent's house and you'll start learning how to be a man.

One of the first things I learned after being out on my own is that nobody is going to help you with shlt.

If you want something then you work for it or you don't get it at all.

From all your threads and posts it's easy to tell you still live with your parents or you live off of someone else.

Grow a pair of nuts.
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Old 04-16-2019, 06:19 AM #18
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You're always crying about something and everything is too hard for you.

Well I don't know who told you life was easy. Everything is hard.

It only gets easy once you become harder than life is, and you realize you can have everything you want if you put the work in.

Once you get to that point, and you have a big enough bank account the entire world is yours, and everything you want you can have.
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Old 04-16-2019, 07:16 AM #19
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You're always crying about something and everything is too hard for you.

Well I don't know who told you life was easy. Everything is hard.

It only gets easy once you become harder than life is, and you realize you can have everything you want if you put the work in.

Once you get to that point, and you have a big enough bank account the entire world is yours, and everything you want you can have.
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Old 04-16-2019, 09:09 AM #20
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i think you're just a loser and a troll, but you're a pathetic dude either way so maybe you're actually in need of this advice this time.


nothing bad will happen to you if you have an awkward interaction with a stranger. absolutely nothing. go to a f#cking casino if you have to, and be the friendlest dude at the blackjack table. practice, pick things up, steal a few lines, learn to work the room. it's not who you are, but who you appear to be, that matters to a stranger. they don't have enough information to go off of to know you're a f#cking lounge troll and a twat. try and work on it enough that people think you're a real human being. you might even enjoy yourself. socializing with strangers is fun. that's what the lounge used to be. now it's a collection of twats doing god knows what.


if that doens't work you're probably dead on the inside and unsalvageable. just don't go postal and i don't give a **** what you do with the rest of your life if that's the case. find something you enjoy and hopefully it will give your life meaning.
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