How do you flirt with women? What are some tips?

[punchr]

punchr, be Michael Scott. Girls love that guy because he's goofy, but sweet just like yourself.

I just want a girl, big dog.

[Luilun]

Anthony Seiner can give you some tips

[boxingfan91]

I just want a girl, big dog.

Try putting your fist up your ass, u punk ugly b1tch

[richardt]

What are some good ways to flirt with a girl? Please share flirting techniques that work for you.

Okay, you get more of the book I wrote! These are listed as sections of chapters:


ATTRACTION FACTOR (6) BE A FLIRT

Flirting can be an interesting and enjoyable way to let
someone else know you exist while making it obvious that
you have taken an interest in them. Flirting has a way of
making people feel good because it massages the ego.
Being able to flirt with others is hard for some because it
can put you on the spot, especially if the person being
focused on shows aloofness or simply doesn’t take notice
of your attempts.

However, flirting can also get the ball rolling and it can cut the tension involved with approaching a stranger. Flirting is simply applying the body language methods coupled with glances and sometimes having just the right approach. Just smiling at a stranger across a room is the simplest way to flirt.

When you flirt, you appear to others as a confident person.
Remember, you are trying to send signals, so there isn’t any roundabout way to flirt. Smiles, glances, compliments and simple statements make for good flirting. Most important, be creative as you go along. It will be a fun ride!

ATTRACTION FACTOR (7) THE POWER OF
PHEROMONES

Pheromones are a chemical that is released through
the skin of both human beings and animals and has the
ability to sub-consciously attract members of the opposite
sex. For one reason or other, mankind has lost the ability
to produce pheromones like his ancestors. One explanation for this possibility is that through daily and continual washing of our bodies, we have all but entirely eliminated this essence. It is possible that the chemicals in our soaps and detergents could be responsible for this as well.

A number of people, myself included, are convinced that pheromones do work. The chances of enhanced attraction taking place can result once a level of rapport has been established. Pheromones are not a miracle worker but they do have a subtle, yet strong influence on physical attraction if other elements are in place. You can purchase pheromones in a cologne through various means such as online, x-rated shops or in back of naked people magazines. Just remember, pheromones do not work miracles like the ads say! They may help if some interest or even attraction is there to begin with but that is all.

Approaching Single Women (the opening line)

In the last chapter on attracting today’s women the
subject was body language and how to maximize your
chances with a lady by first understanding the messages
your body movements send to others. Now that you know
where to meet women and the seven keys to attracting a
lady, let’s move on to the next step: approaching today’s
women.

At this point you probably know where to meet a
variety of ladies and how to make yourself most attractive
to them. The next step involves your initial conversation.
Okay, let’s assume you’ve just spotted a lady that seems
interesting to you. What do you say to her? Well, there
are several types of approach, depending on where you
meet her. You can tailor your approach to that particular
venue. A good way to begin making contact is by finding
an icebreaker to get things going.
Below is a list of opening lines, some old, some new, that should help you break the ice. All in all, there are three types of opening lines: questions, statements and compliments. Many of these, when applied properly can pave the way toward connecting with women. Use the ones that feel the most comfortable to you. Most importantly, find one that reflects your sincerity.

Questions

A typical question would include asking about a
personal item a woman is carrying, directions to someplace, or concerning a product in the women’s department of a clothing store.

Statements

Statements include mentioning how hot or cold or wet the weather is, how crowded the bus is if you use the transit system, etc. Usually questions and compliments involve more participation on the person your conversation is directed toward and hence: a better exchange.

Compliments

Paying a genuine compliment can create a favorable
impression in the mind of others. This is a nice start.
Never be afraid that the other person is going to look at
you funny and think you’re weird. Rarely does this happen. At the very least they may be apprehensive about your compliment, yet underneath all this they may be enjoying how you noticed something about them. Or, better yet, they may find you interesting and become conversational.

Women, or anyone for that matter, will enjoy other people noticing them in a positive way, be it their looks, demeanor, or an item they are wearing or carrying. Examples include mentioning that they are wearing a pretty scarf, ring, dress, necklace, earrings, etc. Each of the following opening lines falls into the category of questions, statements and compliments. You can mix or adlib your own. These openers are categorized by the locale to simplify things. Here is a list of opening lines that are tailored to a specific locale.



In Various Places

Hello/Hi.
How are you?
I’m ______ (name). What’s your name?
You have a nice face.
I don’t mean to sound forward, but I cant
resist trying to meet you.
Is it true that beautiful women are generally friendly to
strangers?
Wasn’t I married to you before once or twice?
I’ll bet you a lunch that I can get you to go out to
lunch with me. When she says no you can’t, you say,
You won! When would you like to collect?
That is a cute dog you have there! What type of breed is that?

On the Transit System

You look familiar, do you work nearby/in the area?
That’s a pretty necklace/ring/dress/scarf..
What kind of perfume is that you’re wearing? It smells wonderful.
Is that a good book?
Are you a student?
Sure is wet outside, isn’t it?
It’s a beautiful day, isn’t it?

In Grocery Stores

Do you happen know which wine goes best with veal?
Can you tell me what makes a good base for chicken soup?
Do you know where I would find the frozen Raccoon?
Can you tell me anything about Cantaloupe soup?

In Parking Lots

Can I help you with that? (If she’s having trouble carrying something).
Please let me get that for you.

At The Workplace

What department do you work in?
Working hard?
Do you belong to a health club? I’ve been looking for one nearby.

In Department Stores

I need a gift for my sister. What kind of perfume do
you think I should get?
What is the best selling cologne for men?

Business District Lunch Areas

What do you think of the food here?
Do you know of any good restaurants nearby for
dinner?

Singles’ Bars and Clubs

I don’t always walk over and talk to somebody, but you
seem interesting.
Have you been coming here long?
Would you mind some company?
Are you having a good time?
What sign are you? (It’s coming back)
What’s a nice girl like you doing in a place like this?
Do you come here often?
Whatever choice you make in opening lines, always try
to be honest in your approach and demeanor because
women can tell if you are trying to put them on or are real so be real, even when asking about where the frozen Raccoon is located. As long as you remember the 3 main types of openers, Questions, Statements, Compliments, then you can adlib along the way.

Past the opening line (unspoken rules)

One survey showed that most women do not mind
strangers making contact with them. Some women say in
groups that they dislike being hit on and occasionally
vocalize this. The truth is, these same women call this
experience when it involves their dream man as “meeting a great guy.”

In other words, the circumstances were the same as being hit on but they have a different name for it when the guy happens to look like Brad Pitt or Robert Redford. Therefore, don’t be concerned with what others are going to think. Your sincerity is all that matters. It’s important to keep in mind that when considering the keys to meeting, attracting and charming a lady, there are other subtle influences involved with success. It’s important to be not only aware of what to do, but also what not to do in romance.

[AlexKid]

Its not what you say its how you feel on the inside that counts, women will get feelings of attraction or repulsion based on how YOU FEEL.

"How you doin" from one guy is hot from another guy very unattractive

Feelings of manliness, confidence, certainty, happiness, high self esteem, relaxation, no seeking validation feelings present, no fear present etc = hot no matter what you say and it will be there in your body language too, naturally, so you dont even need to say anything

These psychological things are hard to master but worth the effort imo, because its more than getting women its happiness feeling good etc, life enjoyment, too.

Learning lines and being someone you are not and tricking women treating them like crap, its just not very effective, its not who you are, its not enjoyable, and it hurts them too. Its just all round crap

[Elroy The Great]

Okay, you get more of the book I wrote! These are listed as sections of chapters:


ATTRACTION FACTOR (6) BE A FLIRT

Flirting can be an interesting and enjoyable way to let
someone else know you exist while making it obvious that
you have taken an interest in them. Flirting has a way of
making people feel good because it massages the ego.
Being able to flirt with others is hard for some because it
can put you on the spot, especially if the person being
focused on shows aloofness or simply doesn’t take notice
of your attempts.

However, flirting can also get the ball rolling and it can cut the tension involved with approaching a stranger. Flirting is simply applying the body language methods coupled with glances and sometimes having just the right approach. Just smiling at a stranger across a room is the simplest way to flirt.

When you flirt, you appear to others as a confident person.
Remember, you are trying to send signals, so there isn’t any roundabout way to flirt. Smiles, glances, compliments and simple statements make for good flirting. Most important, be creative as you go along. It will be a fun ride!

ATTRACTION FACTOR (7) THE POWER OF
PHEROMONES

Pheromones are a chemical that is released through
the skin of both human beings and animals and has the
ability to sub-consciously attract members of the opposite
sex. For one reason or other, mankind has lost the ability
to produce pheromones like his ancestors. One explanation for this possibility is that through daily and continual washing of our bodies, we have all but entirely eliminated this essence. It is possible that the chemicals in our soaps and detergents could be responsible for this as well.

A number of people, myself included, are convinced that pheromones do work. The chances of enhanced attraction taking place can result once a level of rapport has been established. Pheromones are not a miracle worker but they do have a subtle, yet strong influence on physical attraction if other elements are in place. You can purchase pheromones in a cologne through various means such as online, x-rated shops or in back of naked people magazines. Just remember, pheromones do not work miracles like the ads say! They may help if some interest or even attraction is there to begin with but that is all.

Approaching Single Women (the opening line)

In the last chapter on attracting today’s women the
subject was body language and how to maximize your
chances with a lady by first understanding the messages
your body movements send to others. Now that you know
where to meet women and the seven keys to attracting a
lady, let’s move on to the next step: approaching today’s
women.

At this point you probably know where to meet a
variety of ladies and how to make yourself most attractive
to them. The next step involves your initial conversation.
Okay, let’s assume you’ve just spotted a lady that seems
interesting to you. What do you say to her? Well, there
are several types of approach, depending on where you
meet her. You can tailor your approach to that particular
venue. A good way to begin making contact is by finding
an icebreaker to get things going.
Below is a list of opening lines, some old, some new, that should help you break the ice. All in all, there are three types of opening lines: questions, statements and compliments. Many of these, when applied properly can pave the way toward connecting with women. Use the ones that feel the most comfortable to you. Most importantly, find one that reflects your sincerity.

Questions

A typical question would include asking about a
personal item a woman is carrying, directions to someplace, or concerning a product in the women’s department of a clothing store.

Statements

Statements include mentioning how hot or cold or wet the weather is, how crowded the bus is if you use the transit system, etc. Usually questions and compliments involve more participation on the person your conversation is directed toward and hence: a better exchange.

Compliments

Paying a genuine compliment can create a favorable
impression in the mind of others. This is a nice start.
Never be afraid that the other person is going to look at
you funny and think you’re weird. Rarely does this happen. At the very least they may be apprehensive about your compliment, yet underneath all this they may be enjoying how you noticed something about them. Or, better yet, they may find you interesting and become conversational.

Women, or anyone for that matter, will enjoy other people noticing them in a positive way, be it their looks, demeanor, or an item they are wearing or carrying. Examples include mentioning that they are wearing a pretty scarf, ring, dress, necklace, earrings, etc. Each of the following opening lines falls into the category of questions, statements and compliments. You can mix or adlib your own. These openers are categorized by the locale to simplify things. Here is a list of opening lines that are tailored to a specific locale.



In Various Places

Hello/Hi.
How are you?
I’m ______ (name). What’s your name?
You have a nice face.
I don’t mean to sound forward, but I cant
resist trying to meet you.
Is it true that beautiful women are generally friendly to
strangers?
Wasn’t I married to you before once or twice?
I’ll bet you a lunch that I can get you to go out to
lunch with me. When she says no you can’t, you say,
You won! When would you like to collect?
That is a cute dog you have there! What type of breed is that?

On the Transit System

You look familiar, do you work nearby/in the area?
That’s a pretty necklace/ring/dress/scarf..
What kind of perfume is that you’re wearing? It smells wonderful.
Is that a good book?
Are you a student?
Sure is wet outside, isn’t it?
It’s a beautiful day, isn’t it?

In Grocery Stores

Do you happen know which wine goes best with veal?
Can you tell me what makes a good base for chicken soup?
Do you know where I would find the frozen Raccoon?
Can you tell me anything about Cantaloupe soup?

In Parking Lots

Can I help you with that? (If she’s having trouble carrying something).
Please let me get that for you.

At The Workplace

What department do you work in?
Working hard?
Do you belong to a health club? I’ve been looking for one nearby.

In Department Stores

I need a gift for my sister. What kind of perfume do
you think I should get?
What is the best selling cologne for men?

Business District Lunch Areas

What do you think of the food here?
Do you know of any good restaurants nearby for
dinner?

Singles’ Bars and Clubs

I don’t always walk over and talk to somebody, but you
seem interesting.
Have you been coming here long?
Would you mind some company?
Are you having a good time?
What sign are you? (It’s coming back)
What’s a nice girl like you doing in a place like this?
Do you come here often?
Whatever choice you make in opening lines, always try
to be honest in your approach and demeanor because
women can tell if you are trying to put them on or are real so be real, even when asking about where the frozen Raccoon is located. As long as you remember the 3 main types of openers, Questions, Statements, Compliments, then you can adlib along the way.

Past the opening line (unspoken rules)

One survey showed that most women do not mind
strangers making contact with them. Some women say in
groups that they dislike being hit on and occasionally
vocalize this. The truth is, these same women call this
experience when it involves their dream man as “meeting a great guy.”

In other words, the circumstances were the same as being hit on but they have a different name for it when the guy happens to look like Brad Pitt or Robert Redford. Therefore, don’t be concerned with what others are going to think. Your sincerity is all that matters. It’s important to keep in mind that when considering the keys to meeting, attracting and charming a lady, there are other subtle influences involved with success. It’s important to be not only aware of what to do, but also what not to do in romance.

you wasted that comment on a lost cause. punchr will come back with a dozen new failure threads.

he doesnt take advice, he just asks for it.

[kej718]

I find that when I ignore a girl I like (don't look or talk to her) she will come to me. Let her start the conversation they do or say something to make her smile. Compliment her (clothes not anything physical) tell her a joke, help her if she needs help with something.

[richardt]

I find that when I ignore a girl I like (don't look or talk to her) she will come to me. Let her start the conversation they do or say something to make her smile. Compliment her (clothes not anything physical) tell her a joke, help her if she needs help with something.

The first sentence is like a quote I always share, "A woman is like your shadow, chase after her and she runs; run from her and she follows".

[richardt]

you wasted that comment on a lost cause. punchr will come back with a dozen new failure threads.

he doesnt take advice, he just asks for it.

It only took 3 seconds to post so if he or someone else is helped by it, no problem.

[Elroy The Great]

It only took 3 seconds to post so if he or someone else is helped by it, no problem.

wont be him. hes hopeless, helpless and hapless.