Originally posted by Stop
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If someone just does what they are supposed to do, then they wouldn't need to be told anything. Fact.
Originally posted by TehRedRanger
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Originally posted by Cleto_Reyes
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Originally posted by joe strong
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As long as they want to see their dad and have a relationship with him, I will never stop them or stand in their way. I want what's best for my kids. There is no point confusing them or putting two kids in the middle of an adult argument.
No, I'm not still going for booty calls. Leave it to a man to think all things in life revolve around the genitals. I'm not 'letting him off easy', I'm just not punishing my kids for his bad behaviour.
Do you think I tell my kids that he doesn't pay? Of course not, so there is no message being delivered to them. Only a scumbag of a human being would announce that **** to their kid. I don't do things for my kids because I want praise, I do it, because it needs to be done. I don't have to sit and think about it, I do it.
Who is going to pay my bills if I don't? Should I just say, fuk it he's not paying so I'm not either? The world doesn't work that way and my kids having a healthy childhood outweighs whatever money he would be giving me.
Originally posted by joe strong
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Originally posted by VERSATILE2K12
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So should I be one of those mothers who hold their children hostage to get money?
You yourself said in this thread you don't directly pay child support yet you criticise me for allowing my kids to see their father who does ... the same thing you do?
My kids deserve to be happy, deserve to know their mother and their father and that's what I'm doing.
Despite popular belief, I didn't get knocked up to make a living. I'm by no means wealthy, but I will work my ass off to take care of mine.
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