i have 4 really close girlfriends. and three of them are experiencing their marriages/relationships failing.
i happen to be their ear/shoulder...and dont share with the others what they say. there is a common theme tho, and its upsetting to me.
so, while i have deep knowledge of a womans point of view (and i know all relationships are unique, people are different,etc) i would really like to know a mans point of view...
1. what does commitment mean to you?
2. what does being in a relationship/marriage mean to you?
3. how do you feel about your woman remaining an individual in your relationship?
4. what will you not tolerate in a relationship?
5. what does compromise mean to you?
6. how do you keep the love alive...in other words, how often do you feel you have to reinforce the feeling to your woman that 'shes the one' or that she is appreciated?
i know its a lot. but im baffled. i dont understand why people who are obviously head over heels with one another...STILL after so many years...let bull**** get in the way. and im equally baffled why people who DONT feel that way about each other are STILL in relationships that arent failing.
sigh
i happen to be their ear/shoulder...and dont share with the others what they say. there is a common theme tho, and its upsetting to me.
so, while i have deep knowledge of a womans point of view (and i know all relationships are unique, people are different,etc) i would really like to know a mans point of view...
1. what does commitment mean to you?
2. what does being in a relationship/marriage mean to you?
3. how do you feel about your woman remaining an individual in your relationship?
4. what will you not tolerate in a relationship?
5. what does compromise mean to you?
6. how do you keep the love alive...in other words, how often do you feel you have to reinforce the feeling to your woman that 'shes the one' or that she is appreciated?
i know its a lot. but im baffled. i dont understand why people who are obviously head over heels with one another...STILL after so many years...let bull**** get in the way. and im equally baffled why people who DONT feel that way about each other are STILL in relationships that arent failing.
sigh
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