Advice about a girl I like

[davros2010]

This girl recently started working at the same place as me and I kinda like her. She's only been there a few weeks and works at my office 3 times a week.

I've managed to chat to her a couple of times and we seem to get on ok and have a laugh, I been thinking about asking her out for a drink or something but its a pain as she's sat at her desk most of the day with loads of people around plus I have to admit its a bit awkward asking someone out from work.

What do you think I should do? I could try and get to know her a bit better but defo dont want to get in the friends zone. So I thought it best to get on and do it. Maybe I could drop her an email at work or try and catch her leaving work.

[Paclan]

1. Ask her out
2. ...

[Big BRICKS]

Don't email her, if you really like her and feel like she would be a fun person to hang out with, catch her walking out to her car with some chloroform and you're good to go.

[Big BRICKS]

In my personal opinion though, never date a co worker.

[davros2010]

Don't email her, if you really like her and feel like she would be a fun person to hang out with, catch her walking out to her car with some chloroform and you're good to go.

Ok then I will get hold of some chloroform.

[davros2010]

In my personal opinion though, never date a co worker.

Yeah I never asked out someone from work before, it would be really awkward if she told me to get lost then I got to work with her lol, but I'm gonna give it a go. It's just catching her at the right time thats why i thought about sending her an email.

[-MAKAVELLI-]

forget about her telling you to get lost if she's not interested...she might go to HR and report your ass for harassment and get you fired

[davros2010]

forget about her telling you to get lost if she's not interested...she might go to HR and report your ass for harassment and get you fired

Exactly although a few people from work have starting dating there and are now married. If I do it right I might be ok. Dont want to sound like a stalker.

[Paclan]

Exactly although a few people from work have starting dating there and are now married. If I do it right I might be ok. Dont want to sound like a stalker.

stop being insecure. There's nothing wrong with a guy liking a girl. None of your coworkers would disagree with me.

It's only weird if you're weird.

[Bossy]

If you have never been around her outside of work, you may not even like her outside of that setting. Before you make your life awkward, see if you can get a few people from work to go for a drink, invite her along as a casual thing, then if you're still into her ask her out. But try to pay attention to body language etc and see if she's interested first.