Bookmark Website  | Free Registration  | The Team
The Lounge  | Champions  | The Wire |  Schedule |  Audio  |  Arcade  |  The Top Ten  |  Historical  |  Email  |  Video

To Lose Weight or Not to Lose Weight... A Guideline for Men!


To begin this article I must start with it's conclusion.

The decision for a woman to lose her extra childbearing weight is between her doctor and herself.

Even at that, the decision is ultimately up to the woman alone. She only can decide whether or not she is willing to go through the process (and stress) of losing extra pregnancy weight.

However, the woman's decision is usually made from many factors, factors which will encourage or discourage her in this very personal decision.

One of the main factors in a woman's life is her husband. At this point I want to encourage husbands to be supportive of their wives who has bared life inside her body.

Children are produced though both the woman's egg and man*s sperm, this make the child as much a part of the man as it is the woman's. It is however the woman who has the ability to protect the new life by, it being nestled in the center core of her body.

In order for this nestling to remain and be completed, it must take the woman's body through some journeys of changes. Changes which includes but are not limited to the physical, mental emotional and hormonal sides of the woman.

It is physical-weight gain that most woman find to be the biggest drama of their afterbirth bodies. Mainly due to today*s society of thin bodies being better bodies.

However we know that how thin a woman is has nothing to do with how great her body is! I want to personally challenge and encourage men who have wives with new bodies; as the result of bringing forth new life. Beginning with:

RESPECT: Small word, Big Results! To say it quite plainly, husbands RESPECT your wives for bringing forth new life, that the world may go forward! Keep in mind that this is an accomplishment you will never have the pleasure of experiencing.To help you along, here is a 10 pointer guideline.

1.) The only time to call your wife out of her name is to call her a loving name. Sweety Cakes, Honey Bun ect. is appropriate.

Note: "My Pretty Fat Piggy." Is NOT appropriate!

2.) Often express to her how grateful you are, that she bared the children which the two of you together created.

3.) Be supportive of her emotional state, especially if she is a new mom, as she may be going through postpartum.

4.) Only speak positively about her new body. Don't make comments such as these, "You weren*t this size when I married you." "I bet you couldn't fit into your wedding dress now." "How much did you weigh when we were married?"

5.) Respect, Enjoy and Treasure your wife's new body! With a new look, your intimate moments can become intimate encounters! Explore, ENJOY and I repeat RESPECT!

6.) a. Always tell her, "I Love You!"

b. Always show her your love.

c. Always do what make her to KNOW you love her!

7.) Refrain from placing compliments on another woman, be it a woman on television or a woman dining at the table across from you.

8.) Knowledge, know that your wife isn't going to always look and dress as she did before her pregnancy. She now has a baby or babies who demand her time and attention, this takes away from the time she would usually spend on herself. A compassionate husband would understand this and still be able to compliment their wife.

9.) If ever, you wonder about something being appropriate to do or say, reflect on this question."Does this fall under RESPECT?"If you know it does not, then don't do or say it.If it does, then do, do and say it.

10.) Honor your wife for being your wife and know that "her price is far above rubies"

In conclusion, the decision for a woman to lose her extra childbearing weight is between her doctor and herself.Even at that, the decision is ultimately up to the woman alone.

By: Jacqueline Ennis

(c) Jacqueline Ennis 2005 - http://www.bodybybaby.NET

Jacqueline Ennis Publisher of Body By Baby

Body By Baby is a FREE Support E-Zine for women whose bodies has changed due to childbearing.

You can request your subscription at http://www.bodybybaby.NET or write to bodybybaby@gmail.com

This article is FREE for re-print the author would appreciate you informing her that you intend to re-print it. (bodybybaby@gmail.com)

This article will appear in the August 15, 2005 issue ofBody By Baby


MORE RESOURCES:

My Super Bowl Victory in Weight Loss
Huffington Post
Exactly 2 months ago today, Dr Derek Weiss of Bluegrass Bariatric in Lexington performed gastric sleeve weight loss surgery on me at Georgetown Community Hospital. This is part of my business plan upcoming book (released in August) called Project 199, ...



Fox News

Unpleasantly plump? Try these 11 natural weight-loss tips
Fox News
Grab your tape measure: If your waist size is greater than 35 inches (40 for men) you're at a higher risk for heart disease and type 2 diabetes. (To get the right number, measure around your belly button just above your hip bones.) Though “pleasantly ...
The Doctor Is In: Obesity and Weight LossKIII TV3
Doctors Told To Watch Your WeightSouth Asia Mail

all 4 news articles »


6abc.com

Weight Loss Program Email Sparks Outrage At Local College
CBS Local
BRYN MAWR, Pa., (CBS) ‚ÄĒ Targeted for their weight. Students at Bryn Mawr College were asked to enroll in a weight loss program based on their body mass index. The health center used its records to identify students with higher BMIs and in an email ...
Bryn Mawr College weight loss e-mail sparking controversy6abc.com
Bryn Mawr Health Center Helpfully Emails Students Weight Loss TipsJezebel
American university apologises for targeting obese students with weight-loss ...The Independent
Main Line -WILX-TV -Philly.com
all 100 news articles »


Doctor Studies Link Between Reading and Weight Loss
TWC News
All month long, Time Warner Cable News is devoting special coverage to the issue of keeping kids fit with our Fit Kids February initiative. Today, we're re-examining a 2008 study from Duke that found a link between children reading and fighting obesity.

and more »


11 Solutions for Your Weight Loss Challenges
Huffington Post
I rounded up the obstacles to weight loss I hear about most often and share my solutions for each below. But let me start with this: You are not fighting this weight loss battle alone. Lots of people share similar struggles, and I am here for you! Here ...



Dr. Oz Total 10 Rapid Weight Loss Plan Quick Guide
eMaxHealth
Are you curious about the Dr. Oz Total 10 Rapid Weight Loss Plan diet, but just don't have the time to sit through the videos to figure out if this is the right diet for you? Well here is a quick guide on his diet plan that will help you determine if ...

and more »


Stuff.co.nz

Weight loss through bariatric surgery
WJXT Jacksonville
BARIATRIC IS A MEDICAL TERM FOR DEALING WITH OBESITY, PAIRIAT TRICK SURGERY ARE OPERATION WE DO TO PROMOTE WEIGHT LOSS, IT IS THE NUMBER ONE TREATMENT FOR OBESITY. IT IS THE MOST SUCCESSFUL TREATMENT.
Surgeons call for publicly funded weight loss surgery3News NZ
When bigger is not betterOtago Daily Times
Fattest nation?Stuff.co.nz
International Business Times AU -New Zealand Doctor Online -The Saturday Paper (subscription)
all 10 news articles »


Change in diet is key to weight loss
Napa Valley Register
By following the major points outlined in the book I have made modest progress in weight loss without altering to any great degree my lifestyle. Three pounds have come off in 10 days. I normally maintain a good diet of high on protein, low on fats and ...



WRAL.com

Consumer Reports: Weight-loss supplements not worth the risk
WRAL.com
Weight-loss supplements that promise quick results are all the rage. In fact, it's now a billion-dollar industry. But supplements claiming to "burn fat fast" could impact health in a negative way over time. Ingredients in many of them include green ...



Yahoo Health

5 Unhealthy, Even Dangerous, Weight-Loss Diets
Yahoo Health
Erin Palinski-Wade, RD, says this is in no way a viable weight-loss option. ‚ÄúThis is an incredibly dangerous and unhealthy weight-loss option that could potentially be deadly,‚ÄĚ says Palinkski-Wade. ‚ÄúNot only would this lead to serious nutrient ...


Google News


Advertisement



Section Site Map - Submit News - Feedback - Comments - Advertise with Us

Copyright © 2006 Luminati Inc. All rights reserved.