Bookmark Website  | Free Registration  | The Team
The Lounge  | Champions  | The Wire |  Schedule |  Audio  |  Arcade  |  The Top Ten  |  Historical  |  Email  |  Video

Getting What You Really Want


Everyone wants something in life, love, money, success, recognition ... Yet too many people fail to realize their desires, and nearly all of them for the same reason. They seem to go whichever way the wheel turns, as if they have no control over their situation. If their vehicle takes them to places they never intended to be, or crashes into the brickwall of utter despair, that's just the cruelty of fate.

Don't get me wrong, I realize that truly horrible things do happen to folks, and through no fault of their own. Gigantic obstacles are placed in our way sometimes, that seem absolutely insurmountable. Generally speaking, however, getting what you really want out of life is a matter of three (possibly four) simple steps.

Firstly - and this may seem like a no-brainer - you have to decide what it is you want the most. Decide what to aim for, with some specificity. Don't make a laundry list of wishes, but focus on one thing at a time. If you're not sure about where you want to go, there's no point in getting into the vehicle in the first place.

Secondly, create an action plan. This will be your map for getting from point A, where you are now, to point B, where you want to go. You know what you want, what steps are you going to take to get it?

Some things are obvious. If you want a better job, start with skills assessment and maybe some additional training. Then you'll need to sell yourself and your skills either to your present employer for a promotion into the new position you want, or to a new employer.

Other goals will require a bit more thought. Some will really leave you stuck without a clue of how to get there. Not to worry, though, no matter where it is you want to go, someone, somewhere has probably already been there. So what did they do to get there, what road did they take? Books, biographies and such, can be a real help with this. So hit the library if you're in need of guidelines.

Get ideas, get advice, create a good map for yourself, and know where you're going. Write it down, and make sure you can read it every day.

The third and final step is execution. Do what you planned. Take the steps you outlined on your road map and be persistent. If you run into naysayers, simply ignore them. Everyone who ever did anything great always ran into naysayers.

Never take your eyes off the goal. Keep pushing. Whatever you do, do not give up until you have what you desire in your hands. Never, ever give into the notion that you 'can't get there from here.'

Decide - Plan - Execute. It is really that simple.

About that fourth step. Sometimes your action plans may not get you to where you want to be. Maybe something is missing, maybe some step is not quite right. If you find this is the case, after exercising your full patience and persistence, you simply must rework your plan.

Look at it, figure out what's missing, and get back at it. It's just like following a map through a place you've never been before. If you find taking a particular road takes you to the wrong town, rather than turning around and going home, giving up, you take a second look at your map, figure out where you made the wrong turn, and get back on the road.

Whatever you do -- Keep your hands on the wheel!

StartYour Home Business at Prosperity-Net.com

Get Your Slice Of the American Pie!


MORE RESOURCES:

MMAjunkie.com

Michael Bisping's motivation? Even BJ Penn looks to 'The Count' for inspiration
MMAjunkie.com
“It's very, very simple,” Bisping told MMAjunkie video partner Rick Lee. “B.J. is a two-time world champion in two different weight classes. I haven't achieved that, so that's what keeps me motivated. That's what keeps me hungry. I know I'm capable of ...
UFC 186: Michael Bisping motivated to still be world championSportingNews.com
Johnson deserves high praise despite bland personaSault Star

all 264 news articles »


Fortune

If you're struggling to find motivation at work, this may help
Fortune
Staying motivated is hard–for everyone. Like you, my plate is overfull. Getting everything I want to do done isn't easy. And like you, I wear many hats as a business owner, an executive coach, speaker, writer, runner, wife, mother, and I'm currently ...

and more »


Pelicans.com

Plenty of motivation for Pelicans despite trailing 3-0 to Warriors
Pelicans.com
No team in NBA history has ever recovered to win a playoff series after trailing 3-0. In fact, only three times has a team even gotten to a Game 7 from a 3-0 deficit, the most recent instance taking place a dozen years ago. Sobering facts indeed, but ...
Plenty of motivation for the New Orleans Pelicans despite trailing 3-0 to the ...Boxscore
A Test for the PelicansBourbon Street Shots
Warriors vs. Pelicans, NBA playoffs 2015: Time, TV schedule and live stream ...SB Nation

all 1,154 news articles »


St. Cloud Times

Small find creates a mountain of motivation
St. Cloud Times
One Saturday when I was 12, mom woke us before sunrise. I had just dreamt of socking another home run in Yankee Stadium. "Steig oof!" she yelled downstairs. "Wake up!" After breakfast we sliced a mountain of potatoes into chunks, one eye each.



The Inquisitr

Straight Teen Asks Gay Friend To Prom: Jacob Lescenski Explains Motivation ...
The Inquisitr
Straight teen Jacob Lescenski just created one of the most memorable promposals of all time, asking his gay friend to the prom in a gesture that has gotten a nationwide response. The Las Vegas teen decided to ask his best friend, Anthony Martinez, to ...

and more »


MLSsoccer.com

Birthday boy Kaká says pressure to lead Orlando City "is motivation for me"
MLSsoccer.com
ORLANDO, Fla. – Ricardo Izecson dos Santos Leite celebrated his 33rd birthday on Wednesday with virtually every major soccer honor under his belt – but with the aim of achieving even more in MLS. Ricardo, otherwise known as Kaká to fans worldwide and ...

and more »


Gizmodo

Your Monday Morning Motivation, Graphed
Gizmodo
My Sunday motivation bar was high, so I stayed up till midnight watching Game of Thrones. Then, my daughter woke me up with a wet bed at 5 am. After taking care of that, I laid down to try to go back to sleep, and an Amber alert set my phone off a ...

and more »


Frostburg State men's lacrosse gets dual motivation vs. Mary Washington in CAC ...
Baltimore Sun (blog)
I think the opportunity to take it one step further is going to be their motivation.” Frostburg State, which has already achieved several program firsts such as its first national ranking, its first 14-0 start and its first 15-win season, added its ...



Sydney Morning Herald

Seven ways to kill staff motivation
Sydney Morning Herald
Some people will never be motivated in their role. Others do what it takes to keep their job and be seen as a team player. Then there are highly motivated workers who, for myriad reasons, lose their passion for the job and become disgruntled. I thought ...

and more »


Eurosport

McNamara: No motivation needed
Eurosport
"We won't need any motivating for Sunday's match because it's live on television and there's a lot of interest. "You always hope an occasion like this can bring out the best in the players. "That's the way we've got to look at it and hopefully it will ...

and more »

Google News


Advertisement



Section Site Map - Submit News - Feedback - Comments - Advertise with Us

Copyright 2006 Luminati Inc. All rights reserved.