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[Money Team.]

Originally Posted by joe strong

i misunderstood...you are the father? i don't think he should be calling your phone. he should stay out of it unless he has become the new step father. then it's a different scenario. once he is married to her then he has more say because the mother & your child is now under his care also but the phone calls to you now should not happen because he is nothing more then her boyfriend. he should just butt out!

yea im the father and my child lives with me,lol i was callin her cause she has not ben seeing my son and he is gettin hurt...i never even call her but i was pissed.and he tried to get involved

[Strictly_UG]

Well it's his child. As long as all they're arguing about is the kid then i would stay out of it.

I would take care of the kid for his mom, but at the end of the day it's his child. I'll worry about my own.


Generally though this is why I don't get serious with girls with kids

[Tim Horton]

Originally Posted by larryx2012

Her childs father???cause my baby mama's boy friend lost his mind and called me cause me and her were having a dispute over our child,now she might just get holler'd at but dude was gone get it bad,just wondering would any of you get involved or just stay in your place and mind your buisness

Good phucking thread! My woman has a seventeen year old. i have known them since he was born, raised his ass from 10 to the current alongside my daughter and the only real discipline he ever got was from me. now, he disrespects me to the max because his mother allows it. he's her little high school drop out who is now experimenting with Ketamine, chronic weed and who knows what else.

Anyway, it's almost like she's afraid to offend him by telling him not to do something. it's always 'we need to talk, hun' phuck that noise. You disrespect you're grounded. If you continue to disrespect you get taken to the gym and you will spar me. I have even shown up at his mma school on sparring days so i can legally beat this little cunt.

[joe strong]

Originally Posted by Timothy Horton

Good phucking thread! My woman has a seventeen year old. i have known them since he was born, raised his ass from 10 to the current alongside my daughter and the only real discipline he ever got was from me. now, he disrespects me to the max because his mother allows it. he's her little high school drop out who is now experimenting with Ketamine, chronic weed and who knows what else.

Anyway, it's almost like she's afraid to offend him by telling him not to do something. it's always 'we need to talk, hun' phuck that noise. You disrespect you're grounded. If you continue to disrespect you get taken to the gym and you will spar me. I have even shown up at his mma school on sparring days so i can legally beat this little cunt.

i know lots of ironworkers in the same boat. my partner at work has the same issue with her 17 year old daughter & the mother just let's her do what she wants. the difference is they all live together. he has a 16 year old son too. he only disciplines his kid & lets her look after her own but when she *****es about her kid he just tells her not to argue with a her kid. there should be no arguement. she should be telling her to stop not asking...

[Tim Horton]

Originally Posted by joe strong

i know lots of ironworkers in the same boat. my partner at work has the same issue with her 17 year old daughter & the mother just let's her do what she wants. the difference is they all live together. he has a 16 year old son too. he only disciplines his kid & lets her look after her own but when she *****es about her kid he just tells her not to argue with a her kid. there should be no arguement. she should be telling her to stop not asking...

i was raised that parents are the boss. a kid gets out of line and i am ready to start slapping. that's the bottomline. and we all live together as well. and he disrespects me in front of his little buddies. so, i literally go to the gym on sparring days, to his club, and he knows what's coming to. he used his grappling, muay thai and whatever else and i am launching body shots into his mid-section. so far he hasn't not quit yet. so i'm winning.

[joe strong]

Originally Posted by Timothy Horton

i was raised that parents are the boss. a kid gets out of line and i am ready to start slapping. that's the bottomline. and we all live together as well. and he disrespects me in front of his little buddies. so, i literally go to the gym on sparring days, to his club, and he knows what's coming to. he used his grappling, muay thai and whatever else and i am launching body shots into his mid-section. so far he hasn't not quit yet. so i'm winning.

right on...legal beatings lol! the canadian laws prevent you from properly disciplining your kids now. you slap your kid & social services is breathing down your neck. a good ol backhand used to shut me up quickly. principle skinner use to give me the strap when i was a kid. little did he know that i enjoyed it & he helped turn me into the outstanding citizen i am today...get the GIMP!

[Bushbaby]

Originally Posted by Timothy Horton

Good phucking thread! My woman has a seventeen year old. i have known them since he was born, raised his ass from 10 to the current alongside my daughter and the only real discipline he ever got was from me. now, he disrespects me to the max because his mother allows it. he's her little high school drop out who is now experimenting with Ketamine, chronic weed and who knows what else.

Anyway, it's almost like she's afraid to offend him by telling him not to do something. it's always 'we need to talk, hun' phuck that noise. You disrespect you're grounded. If you continue to disrespect you get taken to the gym and you will spar me. I have even shown up at his mma school on sparring days so i can legally beat this little cunt.

Damn, I feel bad for you bro. I'm raising my girl's son as my own & i've thought her how to discipline & she will quicker allow him to slip up concerning her than me.

But I handled that from the very beginning of our relationship. He did not listen at all when I 1st met her. I told her what I tell every woman I meet with a child that misbehaves. "If you cannot control your child, do not expect us to be on the same level & expect me to take you seriously". If I woman cannot control her child, there is no reason for me to see her as an equal adult. I'm a grown a$$ man. Any child under my care better have some respect. If a child won't listen to a woman, why the hell should a grown man??

[Tim Horton]

Originally Posted by Bushbaby

Damn, I feel bad for you bro. I'm raising my girl's son as my own & i've thought her how to discipline & she will quicker allow him to slip up concerning her than me.

But I handled that from the very beginning of our relationship. He did not listen at all when I 1st met her. I told her what I tell every woman I meet with a child that misbehaves. "If you cannot control your child, do not expect us to be on the same level & expect me to take you seriously". If I woman cannot control her child, there is no reason for me to see her as an equal adult. I'm a grown a$$ man. Any child under my care better have some respect. If a child won't listen to a woman, why the hell should a grown man??

so did I, and she agreed.

but his whining is too much for her. literally. she still cleans his phucking room.

it's really sad. he's never even washed a dish but she buys him all this garbage ie; laptop, iphone, friends can come and go as they please (to his room) and i suspect something bad is going to happen soon.

i am considering an exit strategy.

[Mannie Phresh]

Originally Posted by Timothy Horton

so did I, and she agreed.

but his whining is too much for her. literally. she still cleans his phucking room.

it's really sad. he's never even washed a dish but she buys him all this garbage ie; laptop, iphone, friends can come and go as they please (to his room) and i suspect something bad is going to happen soon.

i am considering an exit strategy.

i did the step daddy for 3 years and it was tough. get out man, get out have your own.

[Chief2ndzOnly!]

Originally Posted by larryx2012

Her childs father???cause my baby mama's boy friend lost his mind and called me cause me and her were having a dispute over our child,now she might just get holler'd at but dude was gone get it bad,just wondering would any of you get involved or just stay in your place and mind your buisness

Short answer, No. Unless thangs get physical, and as long as the babydaddy can keep my name out his mouth(ie. "let that n*gga you wit pay for daycare" type bullsh1t comments), it's all gravy as far as Im concerned. Ya'll do ya'lls thang. Imma be over here mindin my gotdamn business.

I never understood why babydaddy's always try to drag the other dude into the situation though. The "let THAT n*gga do X, Y, Z" sh1t is always hella uncalled fa.