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Old 04-29-2012, 06:37 PM
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Can I just make clear, she didn't actually give me h**d and I didn't want her to do it. She was like 'really?' then I got up and put my clothes on. I just wanted to make her feel bad for a moment, which admittedly isn't healthy.
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Old 04-29-2012, 06:45 PM
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i love threads where you have someone seeking advice for a failed relationship and end up finding a cure for diarrhea.
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Old 04-29-2012, 07:08 PM
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...dude... move on, play the field, you seem depressed and are pitying yourself. When you meet her act like things are going amazing without her and you're barely interested in what she says.
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Old 04-30-2012, 06:26 PM
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Well I met with her tonight. Here is what she said -

- I make her feel used when I chuck her on the bed for sex without even hardly saying hello. This makes her feel like 'sh*t'.

- We don't talk enough and I never listen to her.

- I belittle her and make her feel stupid.

- We don't have fun any more.

- She doesn't know what I want out of the relationship.

- She thinks she can begin to love me again if I'm willing to work on our problems and my own shortcomings.

- She admitted that our problems are not completely my fault, and that she needs to talk more about how she feels so I'm not always guessing.

After we had talked which was a hard exercise in itself I felt much better. I acknowledged what she said and promised to work hard at fixing what is broken in our relationship. I asked if we could take things slow and start afresh so that we can remove all the frustration and pressure from our relationship. This took a couple of tries and different angles of convincing but she accepted and agreed to give me another chance. Sometime soon she is going to come over after work, and I'm going to take her out, treat her well, talk, have fun, and take her home. I'm not going to jump on her, instead if she want's sex I will wait until she initiates, as opposed to forcing the action. Basically, I'm going to be real man and treat her like the star that she is instead of some third rate skank I picked up from the street.

After our talk we went to watch the Avengers at the cinema. Then I walked her back to her car. There we had a big cuddle and a small kiss on the lips before she went home. It was a nice end to the night and I felt so much better having understood why she was so closed off and how my actions towards her had caused this.

I just txt'd her goodnight, but from now, I'm going to give her space until she next makes contact. A little space from each other is just what we need right now even if we have patched things up somewhat. I'm exhausted just from the talk we had and need to recharge, so I can't imagine how she feels. Space, time, and limited periods of contact is the best method going forward. Maybe I can save this after all.
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Old 04-30-2012, 08:43 PM
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Old 04-30-2012, 08:51 PM
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Keep doing your thing bro.... Hopefully all ends well.
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Old 04-30-2012, 10:06 PM
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One of Two things will happen after your talk:
1.She will realize life without you is perfectly fine and move on.
2.She will take you back knowing that you have many faults that you have to man up and work on.

Edit:Am I a ****ing genius or WHAT! I called that ****!


This is a step by step process. I feel your relationship will blossom from this day forward because of one thing......appreciation. You truly understand that you need to appreciate the woman in front of you because she means everything to you. For that you will try your hardest to make it work. You don't have to be too stand offish bro. Only talking to her if she hits you up. Yes give her her space but give her those "good morning beautiful" to know she is in your mind and your heart. It will ALWAYS be a work in progress and each and everyday you will have to work and work to make your relationship long lasting. Best of luck to you and your misses bro.

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