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Old 09-11-2011, 12:52 AM
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i think it's wrong timing, you have a baby on the way. It might make your whole experience with your unborn baby a bad one.
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Old 09-11-2011, 02:07 AM
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I would be strong and listen to it. However if you are not ready I don't blame you one bit.
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Old 09-11-2011, 02:33 AM
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Id listen to it man.

Its only fitting... you're about to be a father and it will bring you the closest you've been in years to the only father you have ever had.
couldn't have said it better. perhaps when you're ready, but i think the sooner the better.

and truly sorry for your loss, can't even imagine losing a parent that young. i don't know you personally, but judging from what you've said and taking concern in your future family, i'm sure he'd be really proud of you. i hope whatever is on that tape is something positive and brings tremendous joy to you. good luck on it and everything else man.
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Old 09-11-2011, 02:48 AM
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You found it for a reason, and that was to hear your fathers voice just as you're about to enter a new phase in your life. You'll most likely be sad and tearful, but you'll also be glad to hear his voice once again despite the circumstances. You'll remember what was good about your father and that will most likely inspire you to be the best possible dad that you can be to your kid.

Good luck dude and congrats on your child.
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Old 09-11-2011, 03:16 AM
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Old 09-11-2011, 03:57 AM
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Man, I wouldn't do it. I hate seeing pictures of buddy of mine who died when he was 22. Makes me feel sad man.
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Old 09-11-2011, 05:47 AM
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And, since I'm having a drink, I may as well put it out there.. because as far I'm concerned.. I'm clueless on what to do... and anyones opinion is better than no opinion.

As some of you know, although many do not, my father passed away in 99, I was 15... single worst day in my life to date. I'm sure worse things may come, but for the moment they haven't. He was 38, it was out of nowhere, medical complications as he was overweight. It is what it is... bothers me to this day but what can you do?

Anyways... the day I found out, my mother picked me up from highschool, I was a freshman, 15 years old... they had been divorced since I was 2, but they remained civil and respectful through the years. Anyways, my mom picks me up 20 minutes before schools ends.. weird.. thought I was in trouble. We walk to apparently my grandparents car, I get in the back.. she breaks the news. Rough ride home...

Fast forward to the point of this thread.

When I got home, my mom played the answering machine... the first message that played was a message from my dad just seeing how I was doing in general, and my mom hit stop immediately looked at me with a sad face, took the tape out of the machine and gave it to me to keep.

Fast forward 12 1/2 yrs later, I have a kid on the way and I'm moving my gf and her 4 yr old son into my house. Hence, I am doing some MAJOR remodeling at the current time to my house to make it nicer for them, aka moving lots of things around. Well, I came across my lock box which I haven't look inside in YEARS....

And there's that tape from my answering machine...

Damn.

Haven't heard his voice in almost 13 years.

Would you listen to it?

I don't know what to do.
Wow, thats sad and I'm sorry to hear about you losing your dad. I cant tell you what you should do on this one, but what I will tell you is that I lost my mum seven years ago and given the chance to hear her voice again, I would take it.
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And, since I'm having a drink, I may as well put it out there.. because as far I'm concerned.. I'm clueless on what to do... and anyones opinion is better than no opinion.

As some of you know, although many do not, my father passed away in 99, I was 15... single worst day in my life to date. I'm sure worse things may come, but for the moment they haven't. He was 38, it was out of nowhere, medical complications as he was overweight. It is what it is... bothers me to this day but what can you do?

Anyways... the day I found out, my mother picked me up from highschool, I was a freshman, 15 years old... they had been divorced since I was 2, but they remained civil and respectful through the years. Anyways, my mom picks me up 20 minutes before schools ends.. weird.. thought I was in trouble. We walk to apparently my grandparents car, I get in the back.. she breaks the news. Rough ride home...

Fast forward to the point of this thread.

When I got home, my mom played the answering machine... the first message that played was a message from my dad just seeing how I was doing in general, and my mom hit stop immediately looked at me with a sad face, took the tape out of the machine and gave it to me to keep.

Fast forward 12 1/2 yrs later, I have a kid on the way and I'm moving my gf and her 4 yr old son into my house. Hence, I am doing some MAJOR remodeling at the current time to my house to make it nicer for them, aka moving lots of things around. Well, I came across my lock box which I haven't look inside in YEARS....

And there's that tape from my answering machine...

Damn.

Haven't heard his voice in almost 13 years.

Would you listen to it?

I don't know what to do.
I'd play it again bro. Use it as a reminder of how much your pops loved you.
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Old 09-11-2011, 07:20 AM
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you seem really occupied at the moment, so i wouldn't open up old wounds until things have settled down a bit. the last thing you want is to let the past negatively influence the present and future. play it when you're ready
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