Summary: Cousins getting married and I need ideas about what to do and who all is required to help.
So my cousin is getting married this summer and I am the best man. I have no idea what to do for his party. I want it to be EPIC but at the same time I'm 23 and am in school and poor. Also he's sooo in love it's kinda pathetic which leads me to believe he probably thinks the bachelor party is just a commercial before the sitcom that is marriage. For instance I would bet if his gf said she didn't want kids and he should have a vasectomy(sp?) he would just say well do you know of any good doctors? So my question is what should I do? We live in MN also...not much around here to do except drink. Also who all helps out with the party? Obviously he pays nothing but if I get a party bus are the groomsmen expected to help pay or am I paying for them too? Any help will be great. I know BS isn't probably the best place to ask these questions but its the only forum I'm a part of and obviously I'm not going to ask him and I only know one of his friends.
So my cousin is getting married this summer and I am the best man. I have no idea what to do for his party. I want it to be EPIC but at the same time I'm 23 and am in school and poor. Also he's sooo in love it's kinda pathetic which leads me to believe he probably thinks the bachelor party is just a commercial before the sitcom that is marriage. For instance I would bet if his gf said she didn't want kids and he should have a vasectomy(sp?) he would just say well do you know of any good doctors? So my question is what should I do? We live in MN also...not much around here to do except drink. Also who all helps out with the party? Obviously he pays nothing but if I get a party bus are the groomsmen expected to help pay or am I paying for them too? Any help will be great. I know BS isn't probably the best place to ask these questions but its the only forum I'm a part of and obviously I'm not going to ask him and I only know one of his friends.
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