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Would you still talk nice to an Ex who cheated and betrayed you?
I was wondering if any of you guys would handle this situation?
Say an ex of yours who broke your heart and traumatized you, lied to you, used you emotionally and never cared for you, and never gave you closure after cheating on you after you gave her love and support, contacted you one day years later and she is married on Facebook after seeing you became a success, and said wow! so glad to see you, I knew you would be something, so proud of you!
And later she posts pictures of you guys together on her facebook from years ago, and acts like everything is okay?
How would you handle that would you block her, delete her comment, or would you be nice to her and say thanks?
My friend said he would just block her or just ignore her comments it probably kills her inside that you were not the bum she made you out to be, and she might be a sociopath because only sociopaths would emotionally use someone and not feel any ounce of guilt for hurting you.
I notice chicks do this alot, when they do something wrong they look for someone to tell them it wasnt their fault. They cannot handle guilt or responsibility so they say things like it was both our fault, or we just didnt get along, when its really her fault and she did the wrong.
And they only miss you when you become rich, famous or successful.
Its crazy though I seen some chicks who do this, they treat people liek crap hurt their feelings never give the person closure, yet years later see them and come up and try to hug them and be all buddy buddy like nothing every happen, and if you ignore them they tell you to grow up or tell their girlfriends he was mean and ignored me, and the girlfriends will say he needs to move the F on! But these same female friends will hold grudges against cheating men or men who do them wrong for years. Kinda hypocritical if you think about it.
Have you ever seen a female friend tell her friend that she was wrong to do that to her man or that she needs to be responsible and give a person closure? nope its always like things happen for a reason, or dont worry its not yoru fault you made a mistake if he loved you he would forgive you type stuff.
Most guys will tell other guys man up and apologize to her man.
Women just cannot handle being wrong or being in the wrong, so the run to their girlfriends to comfort or a white knight dude who will kiss her ass in hopes of some tail.
Say an ex of yours who broke your heart and traumatized you, lied to you, used you emotionally and never cared for you, and never gave you closure after cheating on you after you gave her love and support, contacted you one day years later and she is married on Facebook after seeing you became a success, and said wow! so glad to see you, I knew you would be something, so proud of you!
And later she posts pictures of you guys together on her facebook from years ago, and acts like everything is okay?
How would you handle that would you block her, delete her comment, or would you be nice to her and say thanks?
My friend said he would just block her or just ignore her comments it probably kills her inside that you were not the bum she made you out to be, and she might be a sociopath because only sociopaths would emotionally use someone and not feel any ounce of guilt for hurting you.
I notice chicks do this alot, when they do something wrong they look for someone to tell them it wasnt their fault. They cannot handle guilt or responsibility so they say things like it was both our fault, or we just didnt get along, when its really her fault and she did the wrong.
And they only miss you when you become rich, famous or successful.
Its crazy though I seen some chicks who do this, they treat people liek crap hurt their feelings never give the person closure, yet years later see them and come up and try to hug them and be all buddy buddy like nothing every happen, and if you ignore them they tell you to grow up or tell their girlfriends he was mean and ignored me, and the girlfriends will say he needs to move the F on! But these same female friends will hold grudges against cheating men or men who do them wrong for years. Kinda hypocritical if you think about it.
Have you ever seen a female friend tell her friend that she was wrong to do that to her man or that she needs to be responsible and give a person closure? nope its always like things happen for a reason, or dont worry its not yoru fault you made a mistake if he loved you he would forgive you type stuff.
Most guys will tell other guys man up and apologize to her man.
Women just cannot handle being wrong or being in the wrong, so the run to their girlfriends to comfort or a white knight dude who will kiss her ass in hopes of some tail.
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