Why is love so horrible?

[Fistic]

That's bull****. I lost this girl twice already, and it was my fault. I finally realized what I had, went all in, and she stabbed me in the back. She probably only let me back in for revenge...

Love might stay the same but people don't.

The worst part is, I tried my best every single time, and it always turns out the same.

Girls already hurt even when they don't try to hurt you. When they are trying with all their effort, it's ****ing soul crushing ****.

Is it at all possible that at some point in your relationship you were a total douche-bag to this girl? That might explain the vindictive action towards you. If a woman who you are/were involved with tries to purposefully hurt you than that probably means that you hurt her at some point IMO. Best option may be to move on as soon as possible at that point.

[squealpiggy]

What's it like for a **** like yourself?

Fan-fuckin-tastic.

[talip bin osman]

just move on mate...

[ßringer]

Here's a friendly reality check for you.

Right this moment.. Right now when you read this she's likely enjoying her freedom so much she's taking a big black dick up her juicy ass while slurping a white dudes cum'

Even if you salvage it, it won't be the same. Move on, and start enjoying yourself, you bloody ****.

This is something I don't understand. I see it a lot on the internet, too. Some dude creates a thread about breaking up with his girlfriend and it's never too long before some other guy chimes in with the opinion that the thread creator's girlfriend is currently being "d*cked down" at that very moment by multiple men of varying races. Often in pornographic detail.

I'm honestly curious as to what the intent of such posts is. Is it to shock the reader? Offend the thread starter? I haven't a clue what it's intent is, but the instant I read such responses I immediately think that the person posting it has virtually no firsthand experience with committed relationships whatsoever. Because if they did, they'd understand that females have a very different way of handling the collapse of a relationship than men do - Which is often to just go on a p*ssy binge in an attempt to forget about it.

It's truly odd to me that so many males on the internet seem to think that women behave in a manner even remotely close to our own when it comes to breakups.

Not singling you out, Pat. It's just that you were the only one to post this crap in this thread thus far.

[ßringer]

Fan-fuckin-tastic.

Thanks, babe.

I do what I can.

[- Ram Raid -]

Love isn't horrible and nor does it hurt. Someone betraying your love hurts, and in losing love you can feel something close to bereavement but it isn't love itself that causes that pain.

Love is the greatest thing that can happen to you, but it doesn't mean a thing without respect, and that works both ways.

I had a girlfriend that cheated on me once. It was a painful experience but in hindsight I'm glad it happened. My love for her had blinded me from seeing the worst aspects of her character (the signs are always there!) and her betrayal brought them into focus.

I didn't take it personally. Her actions where indicative of her character, not mine. I became a wiser person for it. I've never ignored the signs since. Plus, once you've been through that kind of experience you know that even if it does put you to your knees, you wont allow yourself to stay there for very long.

You can't control who comes in and out of your life, and nor would you want to because then they wouldn't be there by their own accord. Expect your friends and lovers to be like seasons, they come and go. That's the natural flow of most relationships.

Most of all, if you value the ideal of what it means to be a man, don't allow yourself to descend into male chauvinism by degrading all women because one woman has caused you pain. That's the reaction of a hurt little boy.

You are aiming higher than that. Overcoming this experience will help you get there.

[TheNegation]

This is something I don't understand. I see it a lot on the internet, too. Some dude creates a thread about breaking up with his girlfriend and it's never too long before some other guy chimes in with the opinion that the thread creator's girlfriend is currently being "d*cked down" at that very moment by multiple men of varying races. Often in pornographic detail.

I'm honestly curious as to what the intent of such posts is. Is it to shock the reader? Offend the thread starter? I haven't a clue what it's intent is, but the instant I read such responses I immediately think that the person posting it has virtually no firsthand experience with committed relationships whatsoever. Because if they did, they'd understand that females have a very different way of handling the collapse of a relationship than men do - Which is often to just go on a p*ssy binge in an attempt to forget about it.

It's truly odd to me that so many males on the internet seem to think that women behave in a manner even remotely close to our own when it comes to breakups.

Not singling you out, Pat. It's just that you were the only one to post this crap in this thread thus far.

Basically it means YOLO. Stop crying and stressing about something you can't change. You have one life and wasting it dwelling something that can't be fixed is just stupid.

The blunt and ****ographic detail of the probability of your ex getting fuked by a BBC (Whether it's true or not) is what should motivate you to move on with your life and start enjoying it again.