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Which is worse?
After my last thread I came to realize I got 2 friends who society would consider losers.
Friend 1: is a good dude. he works hard. most people who meet him says he's a real nice guy. kind of like the too nice to get the girl type. he still lives at home with his family at the age of 38. he's never had a girlfriend or really been on a date. if he has had sex then it would have to be with a pro since he's never had a girlfriend or been on a real true date. he never goes out to the bars or parties he just sticks to geeky things like comicon, and things like that. he pretty much has the im in no rush to meet a girl mentality.
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Friend 2: is not really a good guy like Friend 1. he's pretty much a total sleaze ball. most people who meet him can't stand him cause he's extremely arrogant, argumentative, and confrontational. he has advanced college degrees but no one will hire him since he fails at interviews for being so unlikable. This guy also lies all the time about the women he dates to not sound like a loser, but once in a while he comes back to reality and stresses out about still being single and not being able to get any girls. I've personally never actually seen him with a girlfriend or on a date, but he claims he has a ton. if I had to bet id guess he too has never had a girlfriend or had legit sex not via a pro. This guy at least moved out of his parents home and owns a small 1 bedroom house on his substitute teacher salary in a poor neighborhood.
So who is worse? and why? Are they lost causes or is one better off than the other?
After my last thread I came to realize I got 2 friends who society would consider losers.
Friend 1: is a good dude. he works hard. most people who meet him says he's a real nice guy. kind of like the too nice to get the girl type. he still lives at home with his family at the age of 38. he's never had a girlfriend or really been on a date. if he has had sex then it would have to be with a pro since he's never had a girlfriend or been on a real true date. he never goes out to the bars or parties he just sticks to geeky things like comicon, and things like that. he pretty much has the im in no rush to meet a girl mentality.
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Friend 2: is not really a good guy like Friend 1. he's pretty much a total sleaze ball. most people who meet him can't stand him cause he's extremely arrogant, argumentative, and confrontational. he has advanced college degrees but no one will hire him since he fails at interviews for being so unlikable. This guy also lies all the time about the women he dates to not sound like a loser, but once in a while he comes back to reality and stresses out about still being single and not being able to get any girls. I've personally never actually seen him with a girlfriend or on a date, but he claims he has a ton. if I had to bet id guess he too has never had a girlfriend or had legit sex not via a pro. This guy at least moved out of his parents home and owns a small 1 bedroom house on his substitute teacher salary in a poor neighborhood.
So who is worse? and why? Are they lost causes or is one better off than the other?
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