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Originally posted by JTfloyd View PostThat's as typical as women get. YOUR happiness is paramount. If playing soccer with your friends helps relieve the stress of working long hours (to accomplish your goal of buying a house), then don't give it a second thought. Just do it. Don't waste your time trying to keep HER happy. Their happiness changes from day to day. So if you give in to her demands (yes, she's a terrorist of your time, in this scenario) now, what do you expect to happen in the future? That'll just lead you down the road where everytime she has a frown on her face, she'll expect YOU to do something for her. Meanwhile, she'll continue to marginalize ANYTHING that you do to keep yourself happy.
Anyway, it's not our responsibility to keep them happy. Don't bite your tongue about these issues, either. Every woman will test you in this way, since it's in their nature. Your job is to explain to her why your happiness comes first, and if she doesn't comprehend, then she knows where the door is. There's never a reason not to be honest. There's plenty of women out there. If this one is giving you grief on a daily basis, while you're trying to do something as substantial as saving for a house, then move on to the next one.
When you inevitably get the house, you can turn it into a place that can accommodate more than one woman. Women who won't nag or complain because they just feel fortunate to (temporarily) be in your house at all.
A few quotes from the man in my sig sum it up perfectly for ya, "A happy man equals a happy relationship. A happy woman equals a miserable man"
"When you fix the king, the kingdom is in line... If the king is wrong, then the whole kingdom is wrong. You don't have to focus on the queen because if you fix the king, then the queen will be fine."
Bottom line, don't feel like you're obligated to put a woman's happiness above yours. Women are easily the most self-absorbed creatures on Earth. And yet, why is it that the most ******* sect of women (feminists) seem to be miserable? Because, in their infinite wisdom they can't figure out how to make THEMSELVES happy, so they try and make men as miserable as they are. Don't fall into the pattern of trying to make her happy, dude. That's a slippery slope you should avoid at all costs. Because when you inevitably get tired of doing **** for HER, she's gonna look at you like you're nothing, and leave. It's better to expedite that process and remove her from your life now, and move on to someone who'll appreciate you.
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It sounds like you two are just at different places in your life. That's no one's fault, it just is what it is. But the reality is that you both want different things out of life right now, and the only way for one to be happy is for the other to give up what they want/need and that is not a recipe for success or a happy life.
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