Emotional Pain

[-MAKAVELLI-]

enjoy your freedom...the shackles have been lifted

[Tay Roc]

Women suck bro. Best of luck in the future.

[Los Zetas]

Best way to get over a girl is listen to some adelle songs

[ELHURACAN58]

Damn, just realised how bad emotional pain is after a long time of being without it.

Broke up with my girl after a fairly long-term relationship. It's not 'officially' over, but I don't like being in that in between position of not knowing how it's going to turn out so I don't want to prolong it.

But damn, after a long time of not having had to go through this, and the fair amount of investment I put into the relationship, it's a ***** feeling.

It's strange, I would much rather feel a strong physical pain right now like after my worst sparring or a crunching tackle during rugby than this.

[ßringer]

With a screen name like that, it's no wonder she hates you.

[New England]

With a screen name like that, it's no wonder she hates you.

can you even imagine if salita were p4p?

i'd be watching another sport.

[4Corners]

Yeah it sucks man. I haven't felt it in a minute either, hopefully I won't have to.

It was real bad when I was 21, had been with this girl since I was 17, all my friends were off at college out of state or far away in state. We split, it was bad, and damn I just felt alone as hell man.

The best thing to do is just go hang out with friends and be around other people, or find another woman/women.

[DARKSEID]

That pain you're feeling is coming as a result of indecision.

You have to decide whether you want her or not. If you want her, then fight for her. If you don't then move on.

The longer you linger the more its going to hurt. You have to make a decision, then act on it and don't look back.

If you look back or waver, then you'll be right back where you started.

[salitap4p#1]

With a screen name like that, it's no wonder she hates you.

my screen name is the reason we got together.

Yeah it sucks man. I haven't felt it in a minute either, hopefully I won't have to.

It was real bad when I was 21, had been with this girl since I was 17, all my friends were off at college out of state or far away in state. We split, it was bad, and damn I just felt alone as hell man.

The best thing to do is just go hang out with friends and be around other people, or find another woman/women.

That pain you're feeling is coming as a result of indecision.

You have to decide whether you want her or not. If you want her, then fight for her. If you don't then move on.

The longer you linger the more its going to hurt. You have to make a decision, then act on it and don't look back.

If you look back or waver, then you'll be right back where you started.

Thanks for your words guys.

A kind of twist, a mutual friend (who I trust, she's reliable) informed me she's been flakey recently because of someone else she's been hanging around with. She started elaborating that my now ex is caught in two minds what to do, but I didn't want to hear anymore, my mind was made up then.

That hurt, but I'm pleased I know the situation as now I'm assured of my decision to get the heck out of this and move on.

I promised to keep that conversation confidential as she didn't want to damage her friendship with my now-ex.

The question now becomes, when my ex contacts me (I haven't communicated anything with her about what I know or ending it) what would be the best way of ending this? Revenge is an option but I don't think I have revenge in me. Was thinking of just ignoring her (and prob switching to a new number so I won't even receive anything from her)? Or is that too kind?

[Alx.]

Same thing happened to me few days ago, i feel like crap and dont wanna do ****....felt like she was the one man but what are you gonna do