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Seriously...... Do You Really Trust Your Girl?
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Originally posted by res View PostDoesn't that mean they weren't committed? Love it when a guys personal experience becomes universal law; and the more bitter it is, the more it's likely to.
Bitter? I was THE guy these girls would be trying to mess with in those scenarios and I've been on the receiving end. It's true to life period.
Don't think hoes and *****es can't come from a proper family or be a shy or nerdy, generally unsuspecting girl next door looking chic.Last edited by Haglerwins; 11-25-2012, 03:07 PM.
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Originally posted by horge View PostI would stipulate that wrt 'being normal human beings',
there's still some distance between just fucking up
and actually fucking around.
Then stop dating bitches, Mak.
It's often said that a relationship takes work ...but I do
think it depends on starting with good raw material, too.
If you both are 'substandard material' to begin with, the
'work' component grows, often beyond human ability to
accomplish, and the relationship fails.
Yes, looks are important. Sexual compatibility too...
It matters if you both have smarts and maturity, but I
think the key is whether you're both good people: the
sort that don't like to hurt others, much less the ones
they truly love.
I never had any trouble attracting girls, and have had
more than a few cases of extreme temptation foisted
on me. What kept me from betraying my girl's trust is
that I value not hurting her, and the acute realization
that a female who'd go after a married man is precisely
the sort of 'bitch' that you and I both proscribe.
I'm aware there'll always be temptation for me and my
wife, but we try hard to provide each other with the
optimal environment for resisting such temptations.
I don't have all the answers, but bottom line I think I'm a good person, and I dont like to hurt ppl, but it's human nature, especially in guys, I think, to get bored from time to time. It doesn't mean you're a bad person, or the girl necessarily did anything wrong. And just bcuz you've been together for 20+ years, doesn't mean anybody has NOT stepped outside either...what happens is that, you love somebody, be prepared to accept the good with the bad, and some are williwilling to put up with more than others. But NOBODY has cheating down to an exact science, as diff ppl cheat for diff reasons. I think it's important to trust the person you're with, bcuz if your relationship is going to work for any extended length of of time, there has to be a certain level of trust.
But think about it, how many of us know exactly what we'd do in ALL given situations? Nobody does, so you'd be a fool to trust another person 100%...just my thoughts.
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Originally posted by horge View PostI would stipulate that wrt 'being normal human beings',
there's still some distance between just fucking up
and actually fucking around.
Then stop dating bitches, Mak.
It's often said that a relationship takes work ...but I do
think it depends on starting with good raw material, too.
If you both are 'substandard material' to begin with, the
'work' component grows, often beyond human ability to
accomplish, and the relationship fails.
Yes, looks are important. Sexual compatibility too...
It matters if you both have smarts and maturity, but I
think the key is whether you're both good people: the
sort that don't like to hurt others, much less the ones
they truly love.
I never had any trouble attracting girls, and have had
more than a few cases of extreme temptation foisted
on me. What kept me from betraying my girl's trust is
that I value not hurting her, and the acute realization
that a female who'd go after a married man is precisely
the sort of 'bitch' that you and I both proscribe.
I'm aware there'll always be temptation for me and my
wife, but we try hard to provide each other with the
optimal environment for resisting such temptations.
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A lot of it is in who you pick. Certain girls are just going to cheat and if you can't tell beforehand that's on you.
With that said, I don't worry about anything like that. I just go with the flow. I trust them until they give me a reason not to, and if they give me a reason not to then it probably isn't going to work in the long run anyways.
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