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Old 02-05-2013, 09:53 PM
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Default Does this rape story makes any sense ?(Long Read)

This dude posted this about his girl a day ago on a different forum and everything about it is suspicious in my opinion.

She claims that she got raped.

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Me and my girlfriend have a long distance relationship currently due to her being in Texas and me in NYC in college. She called me crying to tell me about few hours ago that yesterday at her sisters party she got raped by some guy. She is sure of it and was scared at what to do and called me but me listening to it all, I just had my mind blank out and choke up. She was waiting for her sister to talk to mofo with her bf and find out what happened to be sure before my gf officially goes to the cops. I told her to go get a rape kit done and call cops and tell her parents but she said she wants to be sure before doing anything. I got enraged and told her if she was lying to play this off and as an excuse for what she did but with out a doubt im sure she did got raped now. I'm waiting for more info now but I don't know what to do. I feel so bad and powerless now and I feel so bad right now. I just needed to vent guys ....idk what else to do.



Just to add few more details, she was drinking but not wasted type but everyone else was and when she woke up she knew what had happened and was frantic. She tells me now that she is doesn't know what to do and all that.

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It officially is a rape now that her mom knows and today she went to planned parenthood and she was given a Plan B pill and appointment for a medical check up and get tested. She told me though she does not want to press charges and made up her mind to which she told me this morning. I broke down hard and felt like crap and a deep pain when she told me that. I went to my counselor in college and I literally just let it all out and explained to her what happened. She and another head of the counseling department spoke to me for over an hour and made me think and realize everything. She said to understand that many women don't report it to the police because our court system will drag this to well over months or even years and it would be a constant reminder of what happened and how society will label her as a slut and all that crap we hear about in the news. She just brought out facts and after the whole talk I was able to regain my self and walk out with a clear head. I am going to be there for her and support her because there is no doubt my girl is broken by all this and she just wants to let the healing process begin. I wanna thank you guys as well for the positive comments and I know many of you had the same reaction I initially had about her lying to cover up something but there is no doubt now she was raped.


This is how is went down by all accounts of what people told me and parents and herself once she was at planned parenthood.
It was a party/gathering. Drinking was involved but my girl wasn't feeling in the mood but still drank. She took her medicine from her doctor prescription then drank one drink they were giving and went to lay down as she texted me. She tells me this guy was there that has tried in past to hit on her was there and was getting wasted with everyone else including her sister. So she basically knows the **** who did it and he owned up to it and said he was just wasted and out of his mind. Next thing she wakes up with her clothes off and realizes what has happened and tells her sister. She tells her to go check herself in the bathroom for bruises marks and anything that will show rape has occurred. She has no bruises but checks her privates and sees it is sore and has the obvious inside of her to which she breaks down. She tells her sis and they go out to find the guy and confront him while my gf stays home not knowing what to do. She then told those things I wrote initially not being able to think right and confuses me initially and gives me doubts by not wanting to get anything done or telling parents. I threatened her saying if she is lying to cover up some bs excuse and that I will tell her parents myself but she tells me to hold on. She later does tell her mom and her moms goes crazy but then calms down telling her that she is by her side and that it is her decision to what she wants to do, meaning my gf decision. I was upset and basically told her I dont wanna deal with this and she starts to breakdown saying I cant leave her when she needs me now more than ever and cant go through this just with her parents and herself alone. I managed to calm her and she goes to sleep. Today she went with her mom and friend to planned parenthood to get a Plan B pill and they give her an appointment to go get checked up and tested for everything. She now has to get checked every 6 months for HIV for the next 5 years along with any other std. I then get heated again when she tells me she wont press charges because it will only be dragged in court for months and years even which will cause her pain and daily reminders of what happened. That is what she told me and her close friend told me as well to think about it. I then went to my counselor in college and then went to the head and they just broke it down for me as they have dealt with this situations of rape and trying to make me understand why a woman wont go to the cops.

At this point I just wanna get through this as best I can and help her because what started off as a unclear story and suspicions just as you all said, just was confirmed to me by others, her mom and herself.

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The guy was not there come morning time, he disappeared the next morning and he was the only missing person from all the other people there and is why my gf sis with her bf went out to fin him and confront him. She may as well been have given something as all u said just one drink and then the guy knowing this took advantage of it and then left.

That being said I was already going through some personal family matters that put me in a depression stage and this just put me down in a place where I can never get myself out. You all may say im soft beta and to get out but when a man is kicked this deep down in a hole there is nothing else that matters other than getting my family through with our issues and being a supportive person to a person who is with her mom seeing a counselor at this moment. If i walk away what good will come from it, have this in the back of my mind knowing I walked away from a person I supposedly loved. Im not trying to talk my way into sounding like Im right or convincing myself but depression really hits hard and all i care about is moving forward, getting my degree and helping a person out. You all have right to say im a ***** for being there for a person going through this.
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It sounds like she let a dude hit and feels guilty for cheating.
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Old 02-05-2013, 09:59 PM
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Damn. This is a horrible situation! Keep your head up bro, just be there for her. Shit happens, there's a lot of worthless *******s out there that prey on women who've had a few drinks since they aren't thinking straight.

They got no game, so they make their move when a girl is out if it. Straight up cowards!
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Old 02-05-2013, 10:23 PM
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Damn. This is a horrible situation! Keep your head up bro, just be there for her. Shit happens, there's a lot of worthless *******s out there that prey on women who've had a few drinks since they aren't thinking straight.

They got no game, so they make their move when a girl is out if it. Straight up cowards!
No, this isn't my girlfriend.

It's a guy from a different forum who i'm trying to help out.

This story doesn't add up.
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Old 02-06-2013, 04:43 PM
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Old 02-06-2013, 04:54 PM
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I can't see anything wrong with it.

What parts don't add up?
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Old 02-06-2013, 04:55 PM
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Why does she have to get checked every 6 months for HIV for the next 5 years along with any other std?
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Why does she have to get checked every 6 months for HIV for the next 5 years along with any other std?
It can take upto six months for HIV to be detected by testing, don't know why they would have to do it for 5 years though.
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Old 02-06-2013, 05:13 PM
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I can't see anything wrong with it.

What parts don't add up?
-So she was drinking
-Didn't get wasted
-But don't remember a man on top of her?
-Where was everybody else at, at this party?
-So she gets raped and don't wanna go to the cops?

Unless you are blackout drunk then how do you get raped then go to sleep until the morning? If she was super drunk and memory was hazy then why lie and say she wasn't "wasted"? It would make more sense if she said she was wasted. So she wasn't wasted, remembers something but has to make sure through other parties that she was raped?

If by raped she means she realized in the morning she wished she said no then i'm sure that definitely happened. Anything outside of that needs to be reported asap. They have hotlines for this sort of thing, she can figure it out with a professional as opposed to her accusatory boyfriend.
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Old 02-06-2013, 05:22 PM
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Damn. This is a horrible situation! Keep your head up bro, just be there for her. Shit happens, there's a lot of worthless *******s out there that prey on women who've had a few drinks since they aren't thinking straight.

They got no game, so they make their move when a girl is out if it. Straight up cowards!
Yeah....thats a bull**** excuse x10000000000000000000^10000

Theres no excuse for cheating. Not for girls, and certainly not for guys.
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Old 02-06-2013, 05:25 PM
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This happens way too often. A whore doesnt want to be thought of as a whore....claims rape.
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