Your expectations of someone being able to fix this gigantic mess in 4 years time is comically unrealistic. You blame the guy for this and that, he didn't ask for this mess, he just inherited it and he did he best to fix it.
If someone else had been elected in 2008, it would have been the same result and you'd be sitting here whining about that person being terrible.
Romney wasn't any better of a candidate than Obama. If dumbass motherfukers in the forsaken country were even slightly clued in, a great candidate like Gary Johnson may have had a chance.