Originally Posted by timbatron
Last night, when we were both in bed (around 2) my girlfriends phone rang maybe seven times. She refused to answer it, and when I asked her who it was, she said it was her friend who was drunk in town. I saw the caller i.d and it was a boys name. Now, I know she doesn't hang around with a lot of guys, especially when she isn't with her girlfriends, and the two guy friends I know of hers are gay anyway. As a guy, I know that the only time you ring a girl so early in the morning is when you want sex.
In the morning before she went for a shower, I saw her phone was clearly on. She never turns it off.
When she went up for a shower, I picked up her phone to check the time, but couldn't because it was turned off. Now why would a girl turn off her phone just to have a quick shower? As soon as she was dressed I noticed her switch it back on again. She's never had a problem leaving her phone around me before, why is secrecy so important now?
She's been acting a little bit distant lately, and we're seeing less and less of each other. Classic signs right there. On top of this, she's been more reluctant to engage in sex recently, using her period as an excuse. I could understand this if she hadn't had another period only 2 weeks ago when she's supposed to be taking the pill. Apparently her period is messed up.
[B]]The thing that bothers me is, she really isn't the kind of girl to cheat.[/B I know that's easy to say, but she just isn't. Still I need to keep an open eye about things.
I want to confront her about it, but don't want to be embarrassed when she gives me a perfectly reasonable explanation for why she's been acting so strangely. On the other hand, I want to finish our relationship and take the high ground.
What do you think guys?
I was with a girl for 2-3 years she was crazy in love with me ..she even met my folks .. she was really not the type of girl you would ever expect to cheat..
and sure enough she did...
see the problem is humans are very easily emotionally attached ... so even after a while when you fall out of love with your gf/wife you're still emotionally attached and you might confuse it with being in love..
the same thing happens to women.
after a while you don't get butterflies in your stomach when you see eachother or when you say something sweet... everything becomes a routine .after a while you realize you pretty much know everything about each other...
when this happens lets say she talks to an ex bf she runs into and they talk, or a guy hits on her while shes out shopping..
it doesn't mean shes going to cheat on you but maybe she feels something when she talks to him. Even if it isn't butterflies or lovey duby feelings maybe it's just excitement that she hasn't felt with you in a while, so she pursues this feeling.... and before yo know it shes f ucking him...
so to be completely honest shes obviously doing something ..even if she hasn't cheated yet shes at least talking to another guy or "sexting"