Does Supraspinatus Tendonitis ever heal?

[Edward Lyons]

Does Supraspinatus Tendonitis ever heal?

[Soju]

Well, first and foremost, that's enough nonsense talk about killing yourself over a sporting injury and ****ty family.

I know people who had pro sports contracts for big money on the table who suffered freak career ending injuries, the world is full of them. You are just some amateur gym rat with a hurt shoulder and a high opinion of himself. Yes you'd have destroyed every boxer because you have a hard punch, you'll fit right in with the delusional bs artists on this forum.

Now I'm sorry you hate your situation, but that negativity will not help your injury heal. Reality check! You're a young man from a first world country and a passport millions of people would kill for. You're probably too stupid to know it yet, but your life has limitless potential beyond the confines of your mother, sister, bullies, doctor, cat and whatever else you hate in whichever butt****ing city you come from.

What are your interests in life beyond becoming the next Mike Tyson? Are you in school? Are you working toward a goal? Put the discipline and energy you put into boxing into something else, generate some positive energy and let that shoulder heal.


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[Wuckoo]

Great advice from the guys above. My advice would be if you can't participate in boxing try your hand at training or promoting. See what you can pick up from the coaches

[Wuckoo]

Look for the man who runs your states amateur program, online, and tell him that you want to judge/referee the bouts. He'll point you in the right direction.

It's not the same as actually fighting but it will get your blood pumping again, especially refereeing. It's a good time............ Rockin'

This is great advice. Tbh once I stop competing I'd love to ref or even become a promoter.

[Soju]

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Originally Posted by Soju

Well, first and foremost, that's enough nonsense talk about killing yourself over a sporting injury and ****ty family.

I know people who had pro sports contracts for big money on the table who suffered freak career ending injuries, the world is full of them. You are just some amateur gym rat with a hurt shoulder and a high opinion of himself. Yes you'd have destroyed every boxer because you have a hard punch, you'll fit right in with the delusional bs artists on this forum.

Now I'm sorry you hate your situation, but that negativity will not help your injury heal. Reality check! You're a young man from a first world country and a passport millions of people would kill for. You're probably too stupid to know it yet, but your life has limitless potential beyond the confines of your mother, sister, bullies, doctor, cat and whatever else you hate in whichever butt****ing city you come from.

What are your interests in life beyond becoming the next Mike Tyson? Are you in school? Are you working toward a goal? Put the discipline and energy you put into boxing into something else, generate some positive energy and let that shoulder heal.


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Thanks to Rockin' and Wuckoo for their replies. At least they were nice to me, something which I crave and something which it seems you did not even try to show in your post. Did you not read what I had written? I'm fed up of people like you just shouting at me at telling me to get on with it. It just doesn't work, if anything works its when people are nice to me. I doubt you have the same background as me or that you come from a world where you are starved of affection.

How dare you call me a gym rat and say that I have a high opinion of myself or call me delusional. There's not even enough information for you to make such a statement. Maybe if you knew me better you'd realise that I have a very low opinion of myself and suffered (and still do to a lesser extent) greatly because of it. Everybody calls me big nose, that my nose looks like a pineapple, that I look like a troll, that I walk & talk weird and that I am weird no matter how hard I try. I constantly have to deal with people punching me, calling me names and throwing things at me but boy am I in trouble if I try to stand up for myself! Life has improved over the years but its still nowhere near the quality of life most normal teenagers live nowadays.

Also I never said I wanted to take my own life. When I said I feel like cutting my arm of I mean it feels so weak and useless that I might as well not have it. Did you not read, I've already given up on going back to boxing, I just want my shoulder to be good for everyday life which its not at the moment. It keeps on slipping and giving me pain on top of all the frustration I have to deal with. Physio's can't tell me whether it will heal or not even though I've got it scanned and I just want someone to tell me that. I'd never take my own life because that won't solve anything and it would just demonstrate me giving in to what I had to suffer through. However I am not afraid to say that most people if they were in my shoes would have taken their own lives because they would not be able to deal with the emotional neglect and many other things I faced. I've seen people who only had to deal with a fraction of what I've had to deal with and they crumble and run away for whatever's troubling them whereas I cannot run away. My side was not chosen, it was given and I was born unto trouble. I don't have a mother to comfort or cuddle me like most boys do, just a mother that says she hates me which doesn't toughen you up but just turns you into a nervous wreck starving for affection.

While you say that negativity won't make my shoulder heal, neither is this 'positivity' of being in limbo for hope. I actually get a better response from people when I express that 'negativity' if that's what you want to call it.

That's why I said I would have 'destroyed every other boxer'. I don't mean that literally. I have been beaten many times and badly. Nobody, including yourself is invincible or immune to any sort of shame, humiliation or embarrassment. Why did I say that phrase then? Because its the only phrase I can think of that makes people realise how much my short run at boxing meant to me and how dire I am for answers. I was never good at anything except school work (I'm not trying to compliment myself and I even have doubts about it which makes me really sad as I feel its the only thing 'special' about me) so when I found out I was good at boxing, I was thrilled. A sport which I thought was the farthest thing I'd be good at after getting beat up at school so many times.

Also how dare you call me stupid for not realising my potentials in life. Of course in a first world country no matter how bad my situation I always think of somebody worse of than me because their always will be. I always think of poor people who are hungry, lonely, sick, hurt and who have even more stuff to put up with than me. However I still stand by that I live in an insane world. People just can't understand that if I'm a young man in a first world that goes to college and does 'reasonably' well academically how I could be unhappy or come from such an abusive household and background. I'm incredibly fortunate in many ways but also incredibly unfortunate in may ways. I could write a list to the ends of the earth of all the horrible things in my life but I just can't remember them. They are so many of them and they happen so often that there's nothing to distinguish one from the other. Whereas I can count all my good experiences on one hand and remember them all in detail because there's so few of them.

I never wanted to be the next Mike Tyson either. Every boxer has to carve his own path and there's a lot more to boxing than punching power, it just so happened to be one thing I had.

Jesus Christ kid you must be fun at parties. I was trying to give you a simple pep talk not get into a dramatic argument over the nuances of your first post. My point is your life is not all bad, it could be worse and there are positives to draw from and hold on to. Here you go insisting that everything is despair. OK if you want to be a victim you're a victim, but you won't like where that mindset gets you. Really it sounds like you need to see a board certified therapist and start working toward resolving your issues, because this clearly goes well beyond an injured shoulder. Good luck I wish you well.


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[jaded]

Do the sensible thing...open fire on your family.