By all means do that. I always wanted kids and i didnt have any till i was 34. I did a lot of livin for me before that. Mine were planned and i was ready for them. It aint easy. U might change ur mind and i need someone to wipe my ass when me and the wifey are old lushes.
personal life stuff, probs with uncle sam, business, new kid, blah blah. i just needed to tighten up and spend a lot of time handling s hit.
I'm getting back into some normalcy right now and less stressed.
Shi t happens, I was on about a 4 years of smooth sailing and probably got too comfortable and neglected a few things. it caught up to me and now its back to the bumpy road (which I'm familiar with anyways)