View Full Version : Date advice....


lil'surfer girl
12-21-2002, 01:50 PM
Would any of you guys be freaked out if a girl busted out the sex toys on the first sexual encounter?

Is this something I should save for future romps, or should I just go all out on the first time?

I really don't want to scare him away, but I also want to have a little fun :evil grin:

put 'em up
12-21-2002, 02:03 PM
well, I'm not a guy but I think that 99.9% of the male species would not be offended!

rtbrouwer
12-21-2002, 02:05 PM
IMO the first time should be something special...... It shouldn't be just about sex but about love....... After you know him a bit better you can take out the toys and go wild on him :)

lil'surfer girl
12-21-2002, 02:14 PM
rtb...we are no where near the "love" stage....right now, it is just about sex ;)

SexyBeast....if he brought along a little friend, I'd certainly not complain!

put 'em up
12-21-2002, 02:17 PM
don't listen to them - they are just mad because they make plastic so BIG these days!

VulgarTheClown
12-21-2002, 02:19 PM
I would not get offended, but then again i like to use toys on the ladies too.

depends on the toy and what you want to do with it.

if you elaborate i will give you the typical male reaction.

rtbrouwer
12-21-2002, 02:40 PM
LMAO at sexybeast.

Anyway LSG...... If it is just about the sex it should be good sex. In other words, do what ever it takes to make it as good as possible. The male mind isn't shocked very easily when it comes to sex ;)

VulgarTheClown
12-21-2002, 02:44 PM
actualy the average man is quite self concious about his "weapon" so for your to break out a sex toy might putthe man over he edge and he might just go home.
yet again a man will do almost anythign to get laid SO he might stay even withthe toy but then again he might not enjoy as much and mabye you wouldn;t get a 2nd time.

so if you break out the toy you better get off and get off hard or at least fake it while he is "doin the work" give him all the credit not matter how much its not him, less he really sucks.

lil'surfer girl
12-21-2002, 02:46 PM
LMAO, I knew I could count on you guys for an honest opinion!

VulgarTheClown
12-21-2002, 02:56 PM
so i helped?

lil'surfer girl
12-21-2002, 03:02 PM
Definitely!

casp3r
12-21-2002, 03:08 PM
lsg is my kind lady.. you can experiment with yer toys all you want.

btw, so you don't think i'm someone that would stalk you, this is c0ld

Zen
12-21-2002, 03:28 PM
I know it's our first date and everything, but I'll be ready for anything, and I hope you will be too.:evil grin

lil'surfer girl
12-21-2002, 03:30 PM
Originally posted by casp3r
lsg is my kind lady.. you can experiment with yer toys all you want.

btw, so you don't think i'm someone that would stalk you, this is c0ld

Ya know, I could really use another stalker.......

p.s....I knew it was you all along.

lil'surfer girl
12-21-2002, 03:33 PM
Zen...stop teasing me.

VulgarTheClown
12-21-2002, 03:48 PM
what about me?

i think we would be good together.

I got lots of toys to, we could compair and contrast. how does 9000 vibrations a min sound to you?

Zen
12-21-2002, 03:50 PM
Originally posted by lil'surfer girl
Zen...stop teasing me.

I won't tease you, I'll please you.
http://www.xxxfreesexchat.com/SE/SE1/1234_00.JPG

Blue or purple?
Small, medium, or large?

VulgarTheClown
12-21-2002, 03:58 PM
Lets say my frat brother's dad own the company that makes these.

Fukuoku glove
http://www.massageglove.com/gloveweb.jpg

Fukuoku 9000
http://store4.yimg.com/I/condom-country_1715_4867730

Power Pack
http://store3.yimg.com/I/spankie_1696_1682266

)http://www.eroticmassagers.com/images/products/Fukuoku/fukuoku_powerPack_Large.jpg


both glove and power pack both go well over 9000 vib a min

seldomTap
12-21-2002, 11:38 PM
LSG...pressing the buttons of the male forum community wherever she goes!

Personally, my attitude is whatever floats your boat, give it a run!

I would avoid using electronics in a wet environment, such as a bathroom or pool...but other than that...get into it.

It is better he finds out what a naughty minx you are now than wait till later!:evil grin

VulgarTheClown
12-22-2002, 12:43 AM
the glove is waterproof

seldomTap
12-22-2002, 01:01 AM
Originally posted by VulgarTheClown
the glove is waterproof

Sweet...where does one get one of these devices??

lil'surfer girl
12-22-2002, 08:58 AM
Originally posted by seldomTap
LSG...pressing the buttons of the male forum community wherever she goes!



Would you expect any less of me Seldom?

That glove is a bit daunting....but waterproof is good ;D